Heya. Trying my hand at this again!

About me:

• I'm a 30 year old young professional living in Quezon City. 173cm tall and around 84kg. I'm pretty hairy (hence the bear part), shaved head and I can't seem to grow a beard the way I want it to. INTJ-A. A cat dad to 1 feisty feline babe. Living away from my family. Loves video games, conversations over coffee, and random walks in the evening. No family drama and financially stable. Pretty discreet; I don't think people have to know I'm gay, but I don't really care if they find out. Half-Black on my dad's side. o7
• I'm a PhD student in engineering, currently stuck in research limbo. I get distracted by lots of simple things and I end up getting hyper-fixated on those instead. I clean when I'm stressed.
• I'm a fan of sad music, Lana Del Rey, F TM, and whatever else, you name it. I love being given music or show recommendations. Horror stuff is the shit for me, I'm not saying I don't get scared, but I find that the fun part. I'm the type who isn't embarrassed to cry at a sad movie; "Past Lives" made me bawl at the cinema. I play PC games mostly; if you play guild wars 2, that's already a thing we can bond over.
• I rewatch Avatar the Last Airbender at least once a year. This year, I'm hoping Netflix doesn't mess it up with the new live adaptation. Fell in love with Jujutsu Kaisen last year. Been reading some manhwa for years.
• I'm quite the affectionate guy once you have me. I like small thoughtful gestures. I'm pretty patient with people and I try my best to see the positive things in a situation or a person; until I can't... then I'm gone. One thing most people I know always say about me: "madaling kausap."
• I'm clean, hygienic, and I try to look good on dates/in general. Not conventionally "pogi", I guess. But definitely not ugly.
• NSFW: Sorry folks, I know I give top vibes but I don't default to it. I'm mostly a side/bottom who likes pleasing and giving head. I also like to receive head. Anything NSFW can be talked about, I'm always down to try anything. At least once. Within reason. ;)

Dang, if you read up to this point, honestly hoping you're interested enough to say hi!

About you:

• 23 y/o and above. Preferably a working professional as well or someone in post-grad. I admire people who are driven and have goals in life. Would be cute to be there to support one another for those dreams.
• Hoping you're also pretty discreet. I hope to not sound like a jerk about this, I'm just not really attracted to conventionally feminine traits.
• You're emotionally available, able to communicate your thoughts/feelings or when you're busy, and enjoys receiving and giving affection.
• Clean, hygienic and tries to be their best.
• NSFW: If you're a top, verse, or just like sides. I'm down with that.

If anything here is unclear, weird, or interesting to you, just send me a hi. I'm definitely down to have a conversation and hopefully meet up for coffee? :)