Hi, it's been awhile. Married couple here 35m 40f(vanilla) alam ng wife ko ang fantasy ko about the lifestyle pero disagree sya. May pagka old school talaga wife ko (Maria Clara type) pero the other side super liberated din sya. Gf/BF stage palang kami sya lagi nag iinitiate oral pa nga and wild sex outdoor, halos sya lahat ang nag sstart ng idea like example filming ourselves, bj swallow, mag play ng pornhub, telling stories on her past sex experience sa mga BF nya etc etc. Na Never Kong na experience to sa Ibang naging GF ko. Then one day na curious ako about the lifestyle then nag searched ako about it, and hanggang gusto ko syang ma try talaga so I opened up with my wife na I have a fantasy about threesome or kahit watcher lang or SRS then I thought magagalit sya (kabado bente na talaga ako) then she responded na "I do understand your fantasy, pero I disagree" then i always opened up a topic about it then she said that "I don't want talaga the lifestyle and natatakot din ako na lagi mo syang ipilit ma try" so nag menor ako so, every time na mag roleplay kami while fingering her and bj nyako sinasabe ko eto feeling ng 3S. Then kapag nakainom kami (light drinker lang kami) sasabihin ko ulit kahit watcher nalang, then she will ask "sino naman kukunin natin?" then "dapat hindi taga dito or nearby, dapat galing sa malayo" then the next day ayaw nanaman, hayss until we got married then ayon na, naging vanilla na talaga pati sex life, dating everyday halos minsan once a month nalang minsan wala pa. We went back sa pag church kaya mejo nagbago din yung sex life namin, just sharing. Then na busy na sa work both then madami g ganap, 2024 we got a baby then super busy na talaga, pero gusto ko parin talagang ma try kahit watcher lang. Help naman may chance pa ba? How to get my wife introduce sa swinging 😂