Hello! (Feel free to msg no matter how long the post has been up)

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I am a pansexual 32F who happens to also be polyamorous. I am currently talking to people. I am not much of a writer but I am going to give this a shot to try and give you a good idea of who I am.

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I live outside of Pittsburgh, which is a city I am not very familiar with but I am getting there. So you'll have to forgive my lack of directions if you ever ask. Google maps has been my best friend. When I leave the house it's always on and has probably saved me on multiple occasions as I have almost no sense of direction. I will ALWAYS find good food though. I tend to like the little cracks in the walls. I have found good Cajun, Asian, and sweets, along with american food goodness. I almost always enjoy ANY good Asian food. Chinese food is a go to, but I can be super picky. Maybe I was a food critic in a past life. That being said, I would say I am a pretty average chef but I make some really good dishes. If you feed me, I tend to be like a puppy; content.

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Since I am speaking about myself I'll tell you about some of the things I enjoy!

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•Gardening- I would say I pick this hobby up at least once a year. I don't tend to have a bunch of house plants but I do want to build a garden box for my front yard. I like using fresh fruits and veggies when I cook so this always seems like the best way to do it. I am thinking about trying my hand at some potted herbs too.

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•Motorcycles- I have two of my own and I very much enjoy riding them. I use them as my main mode of transportation. I am not a very good mechanic but I do like watching people work on their own mechanical endeavors.

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•Gaming- I have a love for both video games and board games. I play on PC and I usually play once a day or at least every couple days. Currently I enjoy FFXIV, Borderlands 2, Among us, and bioshock. As for board games I like tsuro and King of tokyo a lot! I also play card games, but know very few popular ones. (Maybe you can teach me!) I like dominion, uno, and Egyptian rat screw. (I will murder you in that game.)

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•Art- I will leave this broad as I tend to jump around with what creative endeavors I enjoy at any given time. Sometimes it's painting, actually a lot of the time it is. Sometimes scribbling, pottery, crocheting or any other thing that catches my eye for a bit. This is reflected by a whole room in my house dedicated to art related projects.

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•Reading- This usually makes people seem worldly, but not me! It just makes my sappiness more apparent and kinks very prevalent. Probably a bit of my nerdish tendencies too. I find myself curled up in bed reading lewd romance novels or some fantasy fiction novel of beautiful worlds that I could never even imagine up. I can get lost in a good book for days. Books are not the only things I read though. Webtoons, manhwas, mangas, and even comics can be added to the list of things I enjoy reading.

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Though I know I enjoy hundreds of other things, that would make this post a little too long and leave very little to talk about if I continued.

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So I will tell you a little bit more about me as a person. I don't want kids but don't mind if you have them. I am was studying web dev and design but I have decided to go in another direction as I was in that field and decided I did not enjoy it as much as I once had. Since the move I have focused all of my energy on fixing up the house. (It was a fixer upper!) I talk about renovations a lot! You have been warned! I do not own any animals but I love them! If you have animals I will more than likely spend a lot of time loving on them. To the extent I may forget that I am there to see you and not your fur baby. I would apologize in advance but lets be real... cute animals are irresistible.I have finally found a gym and a trainer in the area that I like. Though I am looking for a gym buddy. Bonus if you like boxing!

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So what do I look like? I won't be linking any images here so you will have to send me a PM/DM for those. (And if we click I can send some over discord) I am short under 5'3". Mediterranean ancestry, with a bunch of Northern European, but I am super pale! I wear wigs and am a bit chubby.(Yes, overweight!) I personally think I am rather average. I have grey eyes, one tattoo and my ears are pierced. I am not very girly but do enjoy wearing makeup on special occasions. My attire consists of oversized sweatshirts and comfortable pants in the winter, while sundresses tend to be my thing during the summer.

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Okay, before I get too distracted and drone on and on you are probably thinking, what is she looking for? What does this person want? Why is she posting here?

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I am looking for a genuine connection with two men. Seperately or together. I know it's hard over the interwebs but I needed to put myself out there and try. I thought I would throw out my want. I should clarify I am not trying to date a unit. I want to date individuals, if they happen to be attached and that person also seems interested and it is recipritated who knows! I know I know, that's hard to find and complicated. I am probably not even explaining it very well but I am shooting my shot! I would like a *non-hierarchal type relationship and I would like to be able to be on a *relationship escalator without a heavy *ceiling. I prefer to stay around my age or a little older. So someone around 33-42 is ideal to me.

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non-hierarchical - polyamorous relationship, each participant evaluates their own situation and connections, and forms agreements according to the needs and preferences of all, without the expectation that any one particular relationship will take precedence over another.

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relationship escalator- The default set of societal customs for the proper conduct of intimate relationships. Progressive steps with clearly visible markers and a presumed structural goal from point a to point b. The social standard by which most people gauge whether a developing intimate relationship is significant, “serious,” good, healthy, committed or worth pursuing or continuing.

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(If you google this it will most likely speak about monogamous expectations, but I am obviously not that, so we can talk about this if you would like clarification!)

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ceiling- A point in which the relationship escalator stops.

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(There are some very obvious stops, like if one is already legally married. These are things to be discussed)

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If you are more interested in knowing about my intimate life, feel free to stalk my profile.

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When responding please let me know you found my listing from this reddit. Thank you. <3