I have this need to submit, deep, and it's not something I can place or originate. Normally, I'd say I'm a switch; I've taken the reins of power and bore the full gamut of confidence, but there has always been little cracks in that veneer. When I think to those times, yes, it felt right, but it wasn't who I am.
I can be assertive and tough. Masculine. But I need a woman to put me in my place and ultimately take control of my body. Really, more than that: my sexuality. When I touch myself, for long I do it--how large I should be and what I should be wearing--should not be in my control. If that means having my manhood locked in a cage or being forcefully feminized, that is a deal I am willing to make because it is what I crave and what I deserve.
That's the kind of woman I am seeking.
On a personal level, I'm a fitness-oriented nerd and a writer. I work in software. I love talking with people about kink and being exposed to new dimensions of sexuality I did not know existed.
Ultimately, in the long term I am looking for a domme woman who will take me this transformative ride, but also be my everything. I don't want to undertake this suddenly. It has to be built.
What I am not looking for: to be just another sub in a rotation, blindly fulfilling rote and uninspiring without learning about each other. I have a lot of submission to give, but it has to be for the right person. Also, please do not message and dismiss my concerns and desires. I understand that's a fun way to dom, but it doesn't tell me that my boundaries will be respected.
DM me if you're interested.
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