I'm 40 and live in York, PA. I’m educated and work in a professional role in new product development. I'm not one that puts in excessive hours working as a work life balance is of utmost importance.

I find myself in a dead bedroom situation, where we'd likely both acknowledge that we're staying in it for our son. My current situation is very unilaterally unsupportive. That despite my best efforts, whatever I do or try seems to be wrong. Maybe I'm just that bad at things, but I find that less plausible.

Looking for engaging chat about anything and everything, while eliminating any judgement, but striving to further understand any points of contention. I process a broad spectrum of knowledge but have only ever been semi-decent at trivia. I am very active in backpacking, gym, CrossFit and other miscellaneous things. I have done a half marathon and hope to one day to complete a full one.

Seeking one who will challenge me to be the best or even better version of myself, where a partner easily engages in small talk where good morning and how's your day are part of a meaningful relationship that values mutual respect. I enjoy laughing and seeing the positive in every bad situation. I take bad situations as a challenge and am determined to always overcome it. I love telling corny dad jokes, so don't be surprised if I hit you with one. I'm looking for someone that is high energy, has grit, a sense of humor, and intelligence.

I really want to explore new places and new things, with a willingness to explore nearly any and everything from basics to kinks and intimacy. While some topics will grow more comfortable as we get to know each other. I look forward to learning new things and continuing to grow as a person overall.

I feel that if have so much to offer, just seeking the right one to explore and understand the environment that we live. If you've read this far, feel free to send me a chat.