I’m an experienced dominant looking for an eager submissive woman who craves being lovingly restrained and used. Someone who feels freedom when in bondage and fulfillment from service. Someone who finds safety and security in structure, rules, and expectations. Someone who values the mental stimulation/satisfaction from the trust and affection BDSM can deliver.

I live in Pittsburgh but I'm willing to travel for the right partner and/or host her here.

I’m a loving, considerate, thoughtful person and a creative dominant. I’m a white collar professional but have the requisite time to dedicate to this relationship. I am 6' tall, fit, attractive, educated, successful, and (mostly) drama-free. I have interests outside of kink and I'm close with vanilla friends, family, and coworkers. For these reasons, my girl must share my balance of kink and vanilla. In general, I have everything I’ve ever wanted. Except her. The most important part is missing.

I am open to a variety of relationship types but I prefer (and am only experienced with) monogamy and, ultimately, I want a long term relationship. Until then, I’m open to play. Experience level does not matter. I enjoy teaching and training so if you're less experienced, don't hesitate to say hi.

Please send me a message, should you be interested!