Please don't message me if you aren't from PA or at least able to relocate. I'm not seeking something strictly online.

Hi there!

To be totally honest, I'm writing this after work and I'm a bit tired. Therefore this is going to lack any kind of structure and just come out as I think of it. So I hope you brought a snack. You have been warned.

I'm an odd duck. I tend to not care what other people think which leads to be being somewhat "eccentric" and always keeping people laughing. Being kind to others is one of my favorite things so I tend to try to make people smile as often as I can. I'm a nerd, a dreamer, a hopeless romantic, protective, empathetic, admittedly a bit strict/dominant (I work in a kitchen. Taking charge is part of the job), and tend to see challenges as things to overcome.

I'm also a Daddy Dom with 18 years of experience and a long list of kinks ranging from CNC to TPE.

I'm in the State College area, 5'10", take care of myself physically, have blue eyes, a beard, and I keep my head shaved. I have a selfie in another post.

I work full time as a cook at a locally owned restaurant and I live alone. No kids, never married, no alcohol, no hard drugs. Definitely cannabis friendly though.

In my free time I enjoy reading, writing, cooking, being outdoors (hiking, float trips, etc), gardening, reading about everything from physics to witchcraft, learning new skill sets from drywalling and car repair to landscaping and plumbing, gaming on Switch/Xbox/Quest 2, watching movies/shows, listening to a ton of music (I adore scores, instrumentals, EDM, metal, and classic rock), and a lot more. I'm also a huge Lord of the Rings fan.

I'm seeking something and someone particular. I want to love someone. I don't mean just have someone to love, I want to fall in love with someone. I want to have a best friend I utterly adore and that adores me in return. Someone to be loving and cuddly with and goofy in public with. I crave emotional intensity. Clinginess, neediness, etc. I adore it to the point it's practically mandatory. I have a soft spot for shyness, nerdiness, random facts, and the goth/alt vibe.

A Few Deal Breakers

• I prefer a thin to average build. I don't intend to body shame and I'm sorry if it came across that way. It's merely personal preference.

• I'm child free and intend to stay that way

• I'm strictly monogamous. No poly, no sharing, no exceptions.

Anywho! That was a lot. If you've made it this far with your interest still piqued, send me a message or chat request telling me about yourself. I will not reply to one liners like "hey" and "hi there."