My wife and I have been together for about 16 years. I’m 43 and she’s 40. I was her first and only boyfriend (and I took her virginity) though I had several partners before her. I’m maybe a hair above average in size, but really nothing spectacular. My wife can climax from penetration pretty easily, so I don’t really have any insecurities surrounding that.

My wife admitted to me at one point that, although I was the first guy inside her, she had fooled around once with another guy with a really huge cock. She assured me that mine was more than adequate, and that size wasn’t important to her. That, if anything, smaller was better than too big. She’s a petite woman, and the first few times we did it, I even had a hard time getting inside her. I always wondered if she ever thought about that larger guy and what it might have been like to fuck her. She’s kind of shy about discussing that stuff, so she’s never admitted it.

In the meantime, she’s had two kids, is in great shape, and has become a lot hornier since she hit forty. We do it around five times a week, and sometimes I have trouble keeping up.

I don’t have a cuckold fetish, but I sort of wanted to see if she was right that size didn’t matter that much for her. We started out with what for us was a pretty large dildo (7”, but not very thick) and it was clear that it was an extremely intense experience for her. Almost too much the first few times. Slowly, however, she warmed up to it. When she used it on herself, however, I noticed that she only used about the first four inches. It didn’t seem like the length made that big of a difference to her, in other words. But maybe girth did?

Fast forward to me finding out about penis sleeves. I decided to go with one of the cheaper ones from Etsy (around $35) instead of investing $100 dollars on something we might not like.

Wife was very skeptical when it came. She thought it was way too big. (6.5”, but with a very thick head — much thicker than the dildo). She kind of laughed about it, like I had some weird kink — which I guess is true.

It took us a while, but eventually one night I asked if she wanted to try it. She said yes.

Our first time was painful for me, because I didn’t realize that I had to lube up the inside of the sleeve. It was clear, however, that she was having an incredible time. She was too worried about whether or not I was enjoying myself to really let herself go and embrace it. I ended up taking it off partway through and finishing inside her.

A couple of weeks later, we tried it again. This time I was completely lubed up and totally hard. I warmed her up by giving her a couple of orgasms with my hand, then we put on the sleeve, and I lubed it up and slid into her missionary style.

She was immediately in ecstasy. I couldn’t fuck her very fast with it because she was so tight, but I didn’t need to. She came over and over again. It was so intense that she couldn’t open her eyes. Her face was completely flushed and she could barely talk. It was amazingly erotic. I actually didn’t last very long that first time. I exploded into the sleeve, which kind of surprised me.

When it was over, we were both just really quiet for a while. It was clear that something incredible had happened. She was almost embarrassed at how much she’d enjoyed it, and I could tell. She was in a kind of sex daze for a long time afterwards. Eventually I sort of made some kind of joke about how I hoped she could still enjoy my penis after that, and she assured me that she could.

I couldn’t get that encounter out of my mind for several days afterwards. Eventually, I had to try it again. My wife eagerly —but not too eagerly — agreed.

This time we tried doggy style, which she was apprehensive about at first, because even with just my average penis, the deep penetration is extremely intense for her. But I assured her that if it got to be too much, we’d stop or slow down. I went down on her first, making sure she climaxed a couple of times before we tried the sleeve.

Finally, it was time: we made sure I was complete erect, then rolled it on with just a little lube. I bent her over the couch and slowly pushed inside.

Wow.

What a view: it felt like I was fucking her with my own enormous cock. The sounds she was making were incredible. I started slowly, but quickly realized that she was getting used to it and could take more of it now — and harder. (She usually enjoys being fucked extremely hard — with an average-sized cock, of course).

I lasted much longer in this position, but it was also so much more intense for me. I was just on the edge for several minutes as my wife climaxed again and again. In our entire sixteen years together, I’d never seen her like this. It was awe-inspiring.

Finally I came. Once again, my wife was totally speechless for several minutes. We just cuddled in silence.

I said something like “you really seemed to enjoy that.”

And she said that it was incredible. I made some kind of self-deprecating joke about how I hoped that she would still enjoy the “real thing,” and she assured me that of course she did. But then she added “just don’t use the big one every time.”

That was as close as she came to admitting that bigger is better. And I had a kind of crisis of confidence after that, but a minor one. At the same time, I couldn’t stop thinking about how great it had looked and felt to pleasure my wife with the sleeve. I didn’t want to desensitize her (or myself) to normal sex, but at the same time, I know that we’ll use it again.

Eventually we talked about it more directly. She assured me once again that she likes the real thing best of all, and she put it in a way that is very simple, but made total sense to me: she asked me how I would feel if she had a magic fleshlight that made me come super hard. Even if I enjoyed it, would I prefer it over her real vagina?

Of course I wouldn’t. That helped put things in perspective for me. We haven’t used the sleeve in a while, though. I definitely want to, but I’m also a little scared of its power over both of us, even though I understand that it’s never going to “replace” me.

Part of me really wants to upgrade to a slightly larger, high-quality sheath, and part of me is scared that we’re really going to get addicted to it and it’ll change our sex life forever.

So I just wanted to share and see if others could relate and/or profit from my experience!