Skip to the TL;DR if you don't want any backstory.

I need this groups help buying a new sleeve at the request of my wife. Just like most of the people here I too have a wife that has a very hard time admitting she even likes the sleeves. We started like almost everyone else too. About 6 months ago on a whim I bought a Oxballs Butch sleeve to try with her. She was super hesitant and anxious at first. But man the noises she made... I heard and saw my wife react like she never had before, and I was hooked. I went down the rabbit hole and ended up here and finding out about BC and SE. (For any newbies reading this, that is Blissfulcreations and Sensualextensions on Etsy. I was so annoyed when I was new here trying to find out what everyone meant by those little letters). Anywho. I went down the rabbit hole and without consulting with her bought a SE Consigliere triple density. The day after I ordered it, I realized I should have involved her. So we set down like I didn't order anything and between the two companies she picked a BC Mailman. I knew both would be on the bigger side and near or bigger than the Oxballs, I also noticed she didn't realize that about the Mailman, she thought it would be slightly smaller. So I ordered a mailman and away we went. We got the mailman first and it was so much nicer than the Oxballs. I'm actually going to skip some of the good stuff in the middle to get to the point quicker.

My wife was enjoying herself, and having a really hard time admitting it to me, but admitted that if she was going to like these things she wanted something smaller. We ended up ordering a Mailman 7. She like that one seemingly the most, man we were getting somewhere and she was starting to show just a little excitement about these (which was obvious to me the whole time but she thought she was hiding it well lol). You can check my post history if you want the story of surprising her one morning with that one on and her thinking it was all the real me, that was an ego boost and she loved it that morning. I think this helped break the final straw and she has been making coy hints during the days and not putting on a show when I suggest we get one out during our sexy time. For some context we've been using them about 1 out of 5 times the last 6 or so weeks and our average is a really steady 3 times a week. So about once every other weekend etc. She also admitted to me the Consigliere was the realest feeling to her but a very very big cock and she wasn't sure about it.

Ok here's the reason for the post: So last night my beautiful bride went to meet a girlfriend for some drinks. I even got my classic line, "I'm just going for one and then I'm headed home" I sent her with some edibles because she gets super relaxed and needed to chill for a bit, and admittedly because she gets very revved up too. She ended up having a good time and text me "don't wait up" and I reminded her that unlike her, I actually enjoy being woken up for sex and I went to bed. Well very unlike her, she actually woke me up! She was obviously wanting some fun, and immediately more in to it than a normal session. I thought she was obviously a few gummies in. Turns out just feeling a good buzz from the drinks. We started getting hot and heavy and I asked her, "did you grab any toys or sleeves" and she said "no I'm going to make you do that, you know I don't like to be in control, can you warm it up first though?" This got me hard quick, because we don't warm any toys other than sleeves, so she was specifically telling me she wanted a sleeve. I warmed up quick with some sink water and put on the mailman and grabbed the consigliere to bring along as well. She immediately asked "which one are you wearing" and I told her "a big one". "Did you bring the real feeling one?" and I told her no I was wearing the other one that was a bit smaller. She almost seemed disappointed but got in to it pretty quickly when I started revving her back up by going down on her. She was practically begging to be fucked very quickly so I started to make my moves and before I was even half way in she looked me dead in the eye and said "I want the real one, I want to feel it, and I want to know exactly how it feels compared to this one". Absolutely babe, I'm here to please. So I teased her a bit more with the Mailman and got her nice and on the edge and then made the switch. She immediately let her eyes roll back and said "oh my god it feels so real, I love it". She proceeded to practically ask me to fuck her harder, she wanted it and she wanted it bad. She kept saying "It feels just like a real cock, it's just so big" but this time in an excited way. She's liked it in the past and had some great orgasms with it, but she has never asked for this one and was apprehensive to it every single time even during super hot and steamy edible sex. It was awesome, she came so hard she pushed the sleeve completely out on the 3rd super hard orgasm. One after another after another, like one 3 minute long super orgasm, where she was begging me to keep going the whole time. When it came out she almost yelled "put it back in" and we kept going. Some of the hottest sex we've had in awhile. I let her settle a bit and went down on her and started sucking on her clit until she came again and then went right back up and pushed all the way in and she started cumming over and over again, again. Here's what I need your help with. She loves the feel, and after that performance even she knew she couldn't hide she loved it, but it is still a bit too big for her. I can't push all the way in without making her just a little uncomfortable, she really opens up at some point but I can't fuck her super hard with it without making her a little uncomfortable and she really wants that feeling. During pillow talk afterward she made me promise to buy her one that feels just like the triple density Consigliere but is smaller. She likes the Mailman size. She has never suggested we buy any toy in our entire relationship, everything we have has been at my recommendation or insistence. She's never been openly excited about sleeves, and she made a 180 last night and finally showed how I could see she felt the whole time. As I type this sitting in the living room chilling with the kids drinking coffee I keep looking at my wife and wanting to repeat last night right now. So today, I've been tasked by my wife who has always been a little ashamed of her sexuality, to get her a big cock to fuck her with. I've looked and looked in the past already though for this unicorn sleeve. SE sleeves with triple density are almost all as big if not bigger than the consigliere. Which I understand why. I think girth isn't bad for her, it's just a bit long. Who what and where do I go? It's obviously the gummy feeling head and softness on the outside that she loves, the size is just a tad much.

TL;DR: My wife thinks the SE Consigliere triple density sleeve feels the most real of anything we've tried and has made me promise to get her one just like it but smaller. I don't know what to get exactly and need your recommendations.