I write and rewrite this. Trying to be precise with my words. They're the only thing between me and my ideal AP. Well that and space and time and schedules and her husband and kids.

It's not easy to find, but it's doable and worth the effort when you do.

An open and engaging dialogue with a person you crave presence with can be so therapeutic, so fulfilling. I have nothing left in my relationship at home but stability for my kids is my priority. This keeps me afloat, because of the importance to my life I want to be clear, I'm not here for passive chit chat or a goal of getting off and moving on.

I know life takes priority but I want to be here and want my partner to want to be here. Patience and trust come first above all. I love kinks, I'm very open minded and love exploring new experiences and share a real intensity and a real intimacy, but I'm not going to be asking for nudes (ever) and I'm not just here to talk sex.

I don't care about a number on your scale or body type, I've been attracted to a lot of types of people, there's more to your value and being than a number.

I am attracted to a creative mind, somebody excited and enthusiastic to engage in communication, let our walls down and dig in.

I am on the west coast, I don't need perfect alignment, on schedules, but if you're not available at least some of the time after 11pm PST, it's not going to work. In general I'm pretty much always around, but that's my ME time.

I am passionate about music above all, live music and finding new music is the best feeling, weird indie movies that make me wonder "what the fuck did I just watch?" are enjoyable to me, opening up that 3rd eye occasionally, getting out in to the wild where there's no phone service is my favorite. I'll keep a few surprises up my sleeve for when we hit it off.

We're worthwhile and deserve this.