hi there.

a little bit about my normal life first: i'm 39, no kids (but wouldn't mind having some). the most important things in life for me are my friends and my work. i often work from home and love my work and diving deep into the nerdy details of my profession. i spend a lot of time with friends and/or in social situations. i also love travel, but have cut down significantly because of the climate change covid supercombo. i grew up very introverted, but over the years genuinely got to enjoying talking to people. most consider me very easygoing.

well, the one thing i don't enjoy talking about is sex. i guess it has to do with how i was brought up, that sex is a topic of shame and not to be talked about. as such i've always lived out my sexual phantasies in secret/exclusively with my partners. while i'm always open to change, i'm not sure much will change about this particular thing. it just makes me nervous, uncomfortable and feel too vulnerable. i also have some kinks that i know people will make fun of, and i don't need that. that's why i'm here: i feel safe in the anonymity and try to open up at least somewhere.

sexually i'm ... quite deviant as you might imagine. i consider myself a switch. i dabbled a bit in bdsm, i love ropes, toys, a wet pussy in my face, a squirty pussy on my balls while i jerk off, you over my knees and i spank you, gooning over porn, fisting, anal, edging. my ultimate phantasy is to be with a nympho sub like me who wants no master. we can deepthroat and ass fuck each other with a double ended dildo, take turns objectifying each other, see how far we can stretch our holes and how far we shove fingers down our throats while spitting and peeing in each others mouth. i'm very dirty, no doubt about that.

and you? ideally you are 25-45, not too tall, independent, and also secretly kinky. chat me up, let's explore!