I have a fantasy of going on a date together where neither of us is allowed to use the bathroom and we make a wager over who 'gives in' first. When I say give in, I mean one of us can't hold it anymore and wets their pants.

The grand finale does not have to be in public. Most likely we both get to the point where we're seriously desperate and as soon as there is danger of one of us peeing our pants for real, then we head back to home base so that no one else sees the accident but us.

Ideally, it's a casual date in every other way, but we gradually need to pee more and more as the day goes on. We can go to a couple different places, walking, bowling, and eventually find a nice place to sit down and chill and I'll buy drinks. I'd like to have a good time talking and laughing and getting to know each other.

The thought of having our secret wager while nobody else around us knows about our game is thrilling to me. As is the undertone of going from totally relaxed to mildly having to pee to ok now I'm actually getting a little desperate to omg this is urgent.

We can up the stakes by wearing jeans and using luggage locks to make sure we can't get our jeans off until we get back to home base. If we do this, I don't want this to necessarily be all about pee/omo, I'd prefer it to be an actual date where we get to know each other in the full range of ourselves and that range includes exploring a pee fetish. I'd want ample communication and ground rules ahead of time so we are clear on boundaries. A safe-word is a must.

I've been turned on by watching women wet themselves for a long time but I've never had a partner to share this side of myself with, so if you are a cisgender woman who is into guys and you are interested in this fantasy then please send me a message.