As a new member of the FinDom Community. Being a Domme is hard. I thought I had to fake my entire identity while being apart of it but safe to say, I don’t actually have to do things that make me uncomfortable. I’m so glad that I finally managed to come to realization that I don’t actually have to do things that I don’t want to do just to find Subs. If I find the perfect match, then it’ll happen. That time will come. I rather not force something that isn’t meant to be so in other words, I’m a soft/hard Domme that’s willing to degrade/praise/cuck Subs. There will be belittling and praising but I am nowhere near wanting to have it be where I’m dirty talking to my Sub. Out of respect for myself and my partner, I’m overall setting my boundaries as a Domme. The only form of Cucking that I am interested in is to make other Subs jealous for me having something they don’t 😌 ( Including other various cucking ideas ) Please Respect my wishes and I’ll respect yours. For any Domme that views this, any other advice to have me be able to be my true authentic self would be very much appreciated 🥹!