I come from a BDSM background going back to the mid 80’s. My lifestyle is basically the same as patriarchy _lifestyle.

The male rules the home and the female follows, no questions asked. It is a known fact that there has to be a bitch in the house, a follower who serves domestically and sexually.

There has to be rules put in place in order for the home to run smoothly.

While there are some differences, again the two are basically the same.

I think one of the main differences is there are local gatherings for the BDSM communities, weekly and monthly, however once a year there are large gatherings where 1000’s will show.

Our gatherings consist of classes and others sharing their experiences. Before Covid my slave and I taught classes all over the state of Florida. During Covid things turned political and I refused to take part in others stupidity. I spoke at colleges and even local law enforcement on what was considered abuse and what was not.

I enjoy a lot of kink, bondage, floggers and so on. I have a dedicated play room that my slave cannot enter unless invited or I instruct to clean, my own little getaway.

While I believe women were put here to serve and if you believe in the biblical readings, Adam was supposed to be the leader. As it turned out he was weak. Probably afraid Eve was going to cut the pussy off.

There were comments made on another post I made about the group and lifestyle was just a kink. It is not a kink it is a way of life for many.

I run a very strict house, nothing is done without permission, this includes going to the bathroom, showering, what to wear, hair style and color.

As a right. Free use is the only way, often at night I’ll just crawl on top while she’s sleeping and bust one, or I’ll put my dick in her mouth until I blow. That is her purpose.

I’m not so much into the misogyny aspect unless you include face fucking or some types of humiliation, which I believe is necessary at times. I believe males should have more than one woman, this is beneficial to the house. I’ve been searching for sometime to find the perfect fit and it will happen.

As men, we put our women first. The woman is our greatest asset. So while I take a lot, I give back twice as much. We identify as Master and slave, she has not used my first name in nearly 13 years. I am addressed as Master.

This is an awesome group, and I look forward to making new friends.

Let’s hear what others think.