I'm venting be cause I'm tired and it's cold out but my wife insisted on me taking my son outside to be play..... It's 30 out with a nasty wind-chill I said I didn't want to go out and my son wasn't asking to go out he's 3. It's a stupid argument and I still had to take him out she said he's hyper it's not a choice.... He just needs to eat dinner and settle down for an early bedtime. I then feel like a shitty parent because am I'm limiting some of the things he's doing like putting away video games and some of the more loud toys. He's 3.5 . He's my first kid and I already have issues with my wife daily and we are not always in a good way. I'm I being selfish with how I'm acting is it wrong to want me hyper toddler to relax and going outside might help but I'm cold ? I love my son but hes doing a whole lot and then I have to deal with the backlash from my spouse.....then she won't talk to me because she is miffed.....and I'm just wrong cause I opened my mouth..