I wanted to make a quick thread about children and their step-parents, how they can often go unappreciated or unthanked for their efforts.

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My wife (step-mother to some of our kids) has been nothing but terrific for our son's introduction to school. She's made sure all of his clothes are freshly cleaned and ironed -- they even went out to the store just before school started and she helped him pick out his styling duds, which was a real confidence booster for him along with a new haircut -- packs his food (making sure to sneak in a few treats he loves) in a neat little lunchbox, making sure all of the ice packs are frozen and ready to go. They talk about school together and go over every little detail; his new friends, the music room, recess and anything else his racing brain can remember!

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I think she's truly an amazing woman who has made his transition into "big kid" school all the more enjoyable and as stress-free as possible, just by being there!

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So far all you caring step-parents out there (especially those going through less than amicable family scenarios...), I think you deserve a big thank you, at the very least! It's a tough job and a hard position to be in at times, but judging by the faces of those smiling children, just remember how important you are in their lives -- how important you are to the children -- and what a big role you will continue to be in their lives during these formative years!