Hi dont know if it fits in this sub but ive been raising my sister for the pst year after some events happend but luckly i was of age and started a financely stable job to be given the right of her caregiver,but lost my gf of 5 years in the process im not mad at her its understandable no 20 year old wants to begin adoult life by raising someones sister i forgot about my dreams in life,my selfknowlage beacuse i put all of my will and power into her but the worries dont stop how can i keep her emotionaly strong if im bearly hangin on how do i raise a girl if i was raised as a boy just dont wanna make a mistake and im not looking for pitty just wondering if im not alone in this that all my work will pay off in her happines