Idk how to start but most of my family is from army background so they also wanted me to persue my career in army. So when I was in high school I didn’t had much vision about the things so I tried to follow the same path as my family wanted but one thing I knew from start is that kay I am not an army material like bndy ko apna pta hota hy mjhy yeh clear ni tha meine kiya krna hy but itna pta tha army is not the career for me but I tried gave two attempts of ISSB but ni hua. Usky bad family(grandfather) ny bht pressurize kiya kay army mei jao beshk as a soldier jao I am not saying kay soldiers km hoty but jb meine jana hee ni tou mei q jaun. Moving forward I got into a good university and realized what my true talent is I worked hard on graduated with good GPA and now I am earning good Alhamdolilah.Kch time Pakistan mei job ki aur ab I am here in UAE. But out of nowhere aj while I was talking to my family on video call my father said tum itny hee baray intelligent hoty tou army mei hoty it is the last thing that I expected from him. He used to say this alot while I was in university but ab? Even though I am earning good money doing my grind and hardwork but still. This thing shatters your confidence big time when your family specially your father has no confidence in your abilities. Thanks for reading