After hanging out with a girl for a few hours there comes a point where you want to invite her to come to your house without being awkward. This is a major roadblock for many men. Asking a girl to come to your house is almost as hard as approaching her. Most men do not want to get rejected or are simply just scared to ask. There are three scenarios when you need to invite a girl back to your house. When you take her on a date, after a long night of partying and when you just want to Netflix and Chill.

Get Her To Come To Your House After A Date

As a man, you should never take a girl out on a date unless you are planning on inviting her back to your house afterward. As a man, you want to get physical. You do not just want to take her on a date and get nothing in return. The best way to increase your chances of getting laid or getting physical is by inviting her back to your house afterward.

Tell Her You Have Food At Your Spot

In order to get her to come back to your house after a date, you have to give her a reason to come back. Most girls love to eat, having food and snacks in your house will increase your chances. The best time to offer her food at your house is after an ice cream date or after getting drinks at the bar. If you can cook you can just say “Hey, come with me back to my house! You are going to fall in love with my cooking!”

If you are foreign this is a great technique. You can offer her your traditional dishes. Since I am Nigerian I always tell girls that Nigerian jollof rice is amazing. At the end of the date, I simply say “I have some jollof rice at my house, should come over and try it”

Have An Incentive

For men who can not cook, you can still invite her back to your house. Find out what your incentive is for her to come back to your house. Having wine or more liquor at your house always helps. Tell your date about your wine collection. Girls love wine and will always come back to your house to drink wine. If you have a dog you can use it as your incentive. Throughout the week make sure to send several snaps on snapchat of your dog. By the time the weekend comes, you can simply just say “Hey, come meet my dog afterward.” Most women will come back to your house if you just give them a reason why they should. Some other incentives are board games and movies. If you are unable to find an incentive you can simply just say “Hey, you seem cool let's hang out at my spot some more.”

Another great tip is when you take her on a date tell her to come to your house first and you will drive her to the date location. When you do this you can invite her into your house. Say “Hey, come inside for a second I am not ready yet.” As you get ready, show her around your house and let her get comfortable. The reason you do this is that when you come back from your date it will be easier to invite her back into your house since she has already been there.

You Do Not Want To Take Her On A Date

In order to get her to come to your house without taking her on a date you have to get creative. The best way for you to get her to come back to your house is to throw a kickback or get-together. Invite your friends over and tell her to invite her friends as well. You guys can play different board or drinking games. If you do not drink you can invite everyone over for a friend's giving. This is a mini thanksgiving where you just invite friends to your house and have a Thanksgiving dinner. You can also do a secret Santa exchange. These get-togethers work better during the holidays.

Also, you can throw different pregame for Saturday or Friday night. If you are planning on going to a concert throw a pregame. If you are planning on going to a festival have a pregame also. You will be perceived as like the cool alpha male who take the lead and control. Another easy way to invite her over to your house is to tell you are going to cook for her. The oldest trick in the book is to simply just invite her to Netflix and chill. This usually only works when the girl is younger and has a high interest level. It does not hurt to just ask her to come over and watch a movie.

How To Get Her To Come To Your Room

Whenever she comes to your house the main goal is to get her to come to your room. The best way to get her to come to your room is by saying “Hey, come check out my room it is mad cool.” When you say this you want to start walking to your room and she should follow. This works technique works in every situation even when you guys are by yourself and when she is with friends.

When she is with a group of friends you go up to her and say the phrase. Sometimes she might be hesitant because her friends are there but then you just say “My room is dope, you need to see the fraternity gear and different paintings.” Everyone room is different but try and to make your room as unique as possible.

Get Her To Come Over After A Party

The hardest scenario is when you meet a girl at a bar or club and want to get her to come back to your house. The most effective way to get her to come back to your house is to say you are having an after party. From the moment you walk into the party tell everyone that you are having an after party. Every single group of girls. When you try and invite her back to your house by herself it might be challenging to get her to leave her friends. You might get lucky and she will meet up with you after she leaves her friends.

Get Her To Leave The Party With You

If it is not possible for you to throw an after party at your house. The second most effective thing to do is to leave with her in the middle of the party. In order to get her to leave her friends you want to try and do it in the middle of the party. The later the night gets the less your chances are to get her to leave her friends. If you guys are having a great conversation you should just say “Hey, let leave and get some food.” If you manage to get her to leave her friends the chances of you getting laid increases drastically.

Give Her A Ride Home

Another helpful technique is after the party offers her and all her friends a ride back to their house. When you do this focus on having a great conversation with her and her friends. Then ask if them if they want to come to your house and turn up some more. The later it is during the night the less likely girls are willing to drink some more. Most girls would rather smoke when it gets later. If you offer to smoke with her at your house she will be more likely to come back with you.

Tips For When She Come To Your Room

Whenever you invite a girl to your house make sure to remove all the chairs in your room. The reason you do this is that you do not want her to sit on the chairs when she comes to your room. The ideal situation is for her to come to your room and sit on your bed. If she is sitting on your bed it will be easier for you to make a move.

Make sure the AC is on. If she comes over and the house is cold she will be more likely to get underneath the blanket and cuddle with you. When a girl cuddles with you this is the first step to getting physical.

Make sure to have a bottle of wine or liquor on your dresser. Have it in a spot that she can easily see. When she comes to your room the wine or liquor bottle is the first thing she sees. She will say something about it then you can offer it to her. Most girls will take a shot if it is right there in the open. What works great for me is having pure white Hennessy in my room. You can not buy pure white Hennessy in North America which makes most girls more likely to take a shot of it.

If you would like to read more click here

If you would like to the video version here is a link.