This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
Been applying Blackdragon's advice to create MLTR non-monogamous relationships with success so far.
I currently have two MLTRs. I have been seeing MLTR One for about 6 months. She survived "The Talk" and everything is good. We have been Facebook friends pretty much the whole time.
I have been seeing MLTR Two for about 4 months. She is starting to press for exclusivity. I know not to have "The Talk" with her about non-monogamy until she is really demanding an answer. We haven't been friends on Facebook up until now. Recently, she started saying we should be Facebook friends and added me.
I think refusing to be Facebook friends with her could become a big issue and create unnecessary problems, so I should probably go along with it.
There are currently no Facebook posts or pictures of me and MLTR One, so that's good. Here's the issue: I'm concerned that either MLTR One or MLTR Two will start "marking their territory" in terms of posting on my wall and tagging me in pictures on Facebook. I don't think allowing these types of posts to appear on my page is a good idea, as it will definitely create unnecessary drama. However, when I don't allow them, I'm sure they will complain and sense my reason for not allowing it. The only thing I can think of to deal with this is either:
- If it becomes an issue, I'll just unfriend them on Facebook. When they go a few weeks of no complaints, I'll re-add them.
- Soft next if the drama gets too bad
I'm also considering creating two separate Facebook friend lists: one of MLTR One and her friends and one of MLTR Two and her friends. And trying to manage it that way. Possibly showing/hiding posts depending on who is in them. But that feels like a big hassle, trying to keep everything straight.
Thoughts? Suggestions?
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 7 years ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/PUApolyamor...