Have a "chick drawer" somewhere in your home or bedroom. Have an entire drawer dedicated to only things women leave over at your house. Any time a woman leaves a necklace or earrings or panties or what the fuck ever at your place by "accident," just throw it in the chick drawer.

Then you actually verbalize this drawer whenever a woman leaves something at your place ("You left your necklace over here last time. I put it in the chick drawer.") or when she asks to leave something at your place ("Sure! Just put it over there in the chick drawer.")

If she asks you what the chick drawer is, or what all this feminine stuff is in the drawer, flat out tell her. "Oh, that's the chick drawer. Any time a woman leaves something over here, I put it in there. I don't want to be disrespectful or for women to lose things. This way nothing gets lost." Then just smile.

My chick drawer is full of rings, bracelets, necklaces, girly socks, tampons, and all kinds of feminine shit, and has for many years. It's fantastic for a open/poly EFA.

Then when she opens the drawer to see it full of other women's shit, she'll understand:

1. How leaving her crap at your place doesn't bother you.

2. How leaving her crap at your place won't betaize you at all (which is the conscious or subconscious reason why women leave their shit at your place).

3. How desirable you are (or at least have been recently) with other women.

4. How strong your EFA is.

Massively, massively field tested to keep drama low and betaization at zero.

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