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[PUA] mASF repost: "Reds. Yellows. Greens." [60 Years of Challenge]
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Note: This post makes some broad generalizations.
Social interactions don't ALL fit into nice little boxes.

Based on the initial reaction I get off the opener I have a pretty good idea of how to proceed

REDS

When you open: Ignores you, short answers, rude responses
Initial Vibe: Fake smile, avoids EC, no laughing
Remember: Most girls aren't REALLY bitches
What she wants: To feel like a woman, to test you before she talks to you, to trust you
What she expects you to do: Call her a BITCH and walk away
#1 Worry: Is he prone to anger or violence?

Key Tools for Opening: CONFIDENCE TOOLS

- 3 second rule, no hovering
- Smiling, Holding EC
- No fidgeting around, a low status TELL

Key Tools For Attraction:

- Develop a BRAT Stack:

* You remind me of a BRATZ Doll
* Do you have a pillow on your bed that says PRINCESS?
* Looks like someone needs a SPANKING

- Frame Control: Pass her tests, stay emotionally unaffected

- KEY Alpha Trait: DOMINANCE

* Steal her seat
* Talk LOUD
* Call her a DICK
* Give her the finger & smile

- Qualification: The more than your LOOKS kind works best

YELLOWS

When you Open: Deer in Headlights
Initial Vibe: polite smiling, nervous laughter
Remember: She is more scared of you, than you are of her
What she wants: For this not to be awkward
#1 Worry: How long is he staying?

Key Tools For Opening: Indirect Tools, Positive Framing Tools

FTC: I gotta go after this, it's guys night out

Yellows are much more concerned with how long you are staying vs. REDS. Reds know they can make you leave in 3 seconds by just IGNORING you or being extremely rude if need be.

ROOT: The REASON I ask is...

Yellows are very worried about the "WHY" you are asking. They can be paranoid that something weird is going on.

Is this a joke, a poll, some kind of new hidden camera reality show. Give them a root and your opening will go much better.

Positive ( ) Framing:

Yellows need a little more reassurance.

- You guys are good listeners
- You guys are so fun
- Transition Line: I NOTICED you guys look happy, are you celebrating something?

Never use the following FRAMES

- You guys don't talk do you?
- Are you guys are in a bad mood tonight?

Plow through awkward first minute

Key Attraction Tools

Attractive Qualification:

So, what are you good at? Yeah, like what are your talents?

Any qualifying that frames you as a selector is ATTRACTIVE QUALIFYING

Screening Having Standards = Selector

The Push Away:

* Like a Takeaway, without leaving

60: You should probably get back to your friends. You are missing out on girls night by talking with me.

HB: No, it’s ok…we all went out earlier and caught up.

Girls will never leave when you try to push them away.
Everyone likes to leave on their own terms. Go figure.

Extreme Plotlines:

Roll off get IOIs from another girl.
Introduce your target to this new girl.
Take a phone call and leave them alone together for an awkward minute.
Hilarity ensues.

Key Alpha Trait: Persistence

If escalation is attractive (It's always On) then be aware that persistence is even MORE attractive.

IOW, don't give up easily!

GREENS

When you Open: Enthusiastic! Yay!
Initial Vibe: Smiling, Laughing, EC
What she wants: For you to LEAD and move the interaction forward. IOW, go lighter on the DQ’s and teasing.
#1 Worry: Is he going to reject me and kill the vibe by not escalating.

Key Opening Tool: Transitions

There is no need to drag out an opener for 5 minutes and run a 10 minute attraction stack when you are already getting IOIs. Quickly transition into normal conversation.

Key Attraction Tools

Connection-Qualifying:

The type of qualifying that helps build commonalities, comfort, and SPECIFIC things to qualify her on.

Key ALPHA Trait: AGGRESSIVENESS

Use her instant attraction towards you to escalate quickly and move into sexual comfort.


Part Two:

People may say 60 these are REACTIONS, not types of girls. You're right! Don't take it as gospel. Use what works for you, disregard the rest. Have fun with it.

REDS (Bad Reactions)

1. LSE UGS:

Next time you get a bad response off the opener or a girl seems to be acting bitchy for no reason...stop, take a second and really look at her. Dude, chances are she isn't that pretty.

Field Example:

Having fun, talking to everyone, turn quickly and say helloooo

LSE UG: Makes rude comment

What's really going on?

Girls with LSE who aren't pretty think guys that come to talk to them are making fun of them. They don't think you are serious so they want to hurt you before you can hurt them.

The Fix:

Never let this silliness ruin your state. I've hungout with guys who can win over the whole bar, but when one LSE UG says something rude they can't let it go. Also, PLEASE never argue with them. Pleasure meeting you.

2. REAL Bitches

Yes, I said ACTUAL Bitches. I know we all believe women aren't bitches, they are just bitches to YOU because you approached wrong etc...and this is correct in most cases.

But believe me they are out there. If you haven't seen one please join me in the West Village in Manhattan or The Hamptons this summer.

What's really going on?

It's fun to be a Bitch. They don't care if you have a FTC, or you are here with friends.

PUA: I'm here with my buddies
Bitch: That's great...go join them

I'm sure some guy right now is thinking, I can turn any Bitch around. Possibly, but point me to the field report just in case.

The Fix:

It's good practice to hang in there and practice your frame control and tolerance to social pressure, but most times REAL BITCH vs. PUA ends in a draw, or even worse they go get the guys they are with and they come over and all the drama starts.

Real Bitches love this type of drama BTW

If this has never happened to you in your life you can join me at the Jersey Shore for a wild night out.

3. Issues Girl (Bitter, Frumpy)

The Issues girl is kind of cute but she hates men. Some player broke her heart and now every guy must pay. You will be thinking...why the hell did this boring girl even come out tonight?

Make sure you don't turn into "I'm going to cheer you up" guy. You will end up qualifying yourself to her all night long and get nothing but misery in return.

4. The HOT girl that just wants to TEST you before she will talk to you.

Different from the actual BITCH. If you hang in there against her one or two zingers you are usually cool with her.

This is why if you get an initial bad reaction you can always turn things around.

YELLOWS

1. Time Waster

I have discussed the TW before. She likes the attention not you. She won't blow you out, but she won't blow you either.

Usually has a BF and uses the following lines in response to your escalations

Isolation: I'm fine here, thanks
# Close: Give me your card
Timebridge: Why, I'll just see you here at the club next Friday
Kiss: I don't kiss guys in bars, I told you...I have a BF

2. The Shy Girl (LSE)

Queen of the passive IOI. She doesn't leave but she doesn't help you advance the PU in any way.

The Fix:

Escalate and find out if she is shy-attracted or just shy. These types of girls can be maddening if you don't live by the code of It's Always On.

3. The Pretender (LSE)

The Pretender can easily by spotted by the weird face she is making. Everytime you try and up the sexual vibe she makes that "you're weird" face.

She may also sometimes pretend to be a tough girl like her cousin the Bitch, but her frame tests are amateur hour.

Field Example:

60: Turns on seducer vibe, EC, smiling staring at lips

HB: (holding EC) you're weird.

I used to think I did something wrong, or my seducer vibe might have gone into the creepy zone etc. Now I just grab her and start making out.

SHE WILL NEVER STOP YOU !

I have another example from an old LR

60: secret kino under the table
HB: What are you doing? Are you touching my leg?
60: Yes.

The Pretender wants the PU to be all your fault. She resisted you every step of the way. What could she do?

Most guys can not spot a Pretender and think the girl is just not attracted.

4. The Undecided Girl

This type of Yellow thinks you are interesting. He's fun, cool stories, etc.

HB: But there are tons of guys here and so much stimulation. I can't really commit to anything yet.

This type of Yellow needs a push

- Takeaway, Pushaway
- Plotline
- Escalation is attractive
- Persistence is Attractive

GREENS

Greens already like you so just qualify them on something and escalate quickly

Quick Review

Bad Response on opener

1. UGS, LSE: Don't let it ruin your state, be more genuine
2. Actual Bitch: This girl loves creating drama and YOU are the perfect canditate. Say hello to Bruno & Tino from Staten Island. Run.
3. Issues Girl: No, you can't cheer her up. Next!
4. Hot Girl: she gets hit on so much she needs to test you first. Hang in there.
5. Bad Approach: Conveyed too much interest and/or did not subcommunicate confidence.

Neutral Responses in Attraction

1. The Time Waster: Yes, you are talking to a girl. So what?
2. The Shy girl: Call her bluff & make a move.
3. The Pretender: Keep escalating and ignore the weird face. She will be making an even weirder face in bed tonight.
4. The Undecided Girl: Go open other sets but keep checking in with her. She will be yours eventually, but if not at least you have a backup plan.

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