I would like to know a bit about you, dear reader. Do you practice PUA Polyamory? If not, why are you here? (That's not meant to be aggressive; I'm genuinely curious about this.) If you do practise PUA Poly, why do you do so? How long have you? What made you change from your previous relationship systems? Also, what are some of your PUA Poly experiences? This could be Nexting, picking up women, holding frame, setting up or maintaining the relationship, or anything else relevant to the subreddit.

I'll go first. I'm currently focusing on getting a job (I recently graduated with a degree and now I need to find somebody willing to pay me for my skills), so I haven't really had the time or energy to go meet new women. Of the women I still have on rotation, one just LSNFTE'd me and the other has been giving me some minor drama.

Ooh, story time! My lover was upset because I didn't trust her about something relatively minor when the evidence really wasn't in her favor. I held frame and eventually asked if she wanted to sleep on the couch. If the busses were running that late I would have asked her if she wanted to leave. I let her spin her emotional wheels for a few minutes before saying I wanted to go to bed and asking if she wanted to snuggle. She said "probably," so we snuggled and went to bed.

If she had said "no" I would have made her sleep on the couch because I don't share a bed with somebody who doesn't want to snuggle.