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Originally posted by Harmless on the now-defunct forum seductionbb.com:
Hopefully, you all know about Future Adventures Projection by now. This is something I do ALL THE TIME in set, and it works really well with other roleplaying material.
Future Adventures Projections are routines where you describe to the girl your SHARED future adventures. Not that difficult a concept. It can be anything from rock climbing together to going deep sea fishing to seeing eachother at the club next weekend. I usually concentrate on talking about our future PLANS rather than the actual adventures themselves (Future Plans Projections?). The most important thing to remember to make these work is to use a C&F attitude as you talk about these future plans as if she's already agreed to take part.
I'll give you guys a few stock phrases to begin your Future Plans Projections:
"So, when shall we schedule our..."
"Well, I've made arrangements for our..."
"I've already booked the .... for our..."The future adventures projections that get the best results for me ALWAYS include talk about sex. You might think this is a little forward, and it might not work as well if your style is very indirect (TD? Mystery? I don't want to generalize because I know these guys both have VERY strong closing game and phase shifts, but I don't know if this direct approach will work for guys trying to emulate the "TD style"). But if you use a more natural game like Zan and I, then this will be very congruent... and very irresistable.
The best thing to do is plan your OWN future adventures, but here are some examples to get you started:
Me: "So, I've scheduled our secret romantic island getaway for next Friday."
Her: "What secret getaway?"
Me: "Oh, I'm renting an island in the south pacific."
Her: "You can rent an island?"
Me: "Sure. We'll fly in on my private jet and spend a weekend drinking rum, swimming in the beautiful ocean, and having sex on the beach as the waves lap against our entwined bodies. So this Friday is good for you, right?"I asked the girl I pulled (but didn't quite close) tonight "So when would be a good time for you?" and she said, "Any time is good for me. I'm single."
I used this on my SHB wing last night and after I said, "So when would you like to schedule our secret romantic island getaway?"
She said, "I don't know. I'll have to ask [my BF]."
"No... SECRET. Remember?"
"Oh yeah, sorry!"
"So next weekend good for you? Awesome. I'm renting an island. One weekend of nothing but rum, sand, sun, water, and sex. Uh... lots of sex. In fact, so much sex that you'll probably forget all about the rum, sand, sun and water."EVERY time I do this I get the same response: Her buying temp spikes, she goes into sexual state, she opens her mouth, leans in, and puts her hand on my chest. This EXACT reaction. EVERY TIME. It's UNCANNY. This is such a strong buying temp. spike that it almost entirely responsible for turning around a sarge that I had almost lost due to her losing state DRASTICALLY. (It went from holding hands to not even linking arms to not even walking next to each other to my future plans projection to her sexual state and hand on my chest. IMMEDIATELY.)
Another thing to remember is to combine this with all your other tactics like Push/Pull: "Oh, hey, looks like we'll have to cancel our plans." and Swinggcat style challenging and qualifying: "Wait, can you swim? Cause we can't go to an island if you're going to drown."
Try it out guys. Add to it. Come up with your own material and post it here so I can use it too.
Harmless
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