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Author: Blackdragon
As I said in my last post like this, Iāll post updates of the status of my FBās and MLTRās every few months or so. I last did this around August of 2009, so I guess itās about that time again. That last post is here:
Iāve included links to all the relevant āhow-toā posts at the bottom of this post. Also, every single woman I describe here except for HBGamer I have posted about already, FRs, LRs, RRs, etc. So DAFS if you want more info on a particular chick.
So hereās lowdown, the good and the bad (mostly good), as of April 2010.
MLTRs
HBMySpace (20 year old Asian). Itās been a consistent one year and two months. Yes, sheās 20 now, no longer a teenager. Boo-hoo. Oh well, I still call her a teenager when I fuck her. Sheās still going strong, not a single problem with one exception Iāll describe in a minute. She is the most consistent woman in my life, I see her every week without fail. She is now completely sexually trained. 69, cumming in her mouth, anal sex, the works. (Though she did throw up all over my dick when I came in her mouth once. That was fun.) She can do it all now. Her pussy is very tight so she does still get sore after a night (and following morning) of hard fucking, but since I only see her once a week (per my MLTR rules), sheās ready to go whenever I see her next. Since starting her birth control pills (that I put her on) sheās gotten extremely horny. I havenāt seen that reaction beforeā¦never knew birth control pills would make a chick horny, but it did with her (it could all be psychological too). Sheās now actually checking out cute guysā bodies at her work. Sheās even masturbating for the first time in her life. Iāve created a monster.
When I verbalized to her that I would never be monogamous with her, all she did was shed a single tear from her eye, then she gave me a big hug, and said āI love you. I donāt care about that. I understand.ā Several months later, she put up a big bitchy thing about me on her MySpace page, which she cleverly wrote in her native language so I wouldnāt understand. Unfortunately for her, I have an ear for languages, had picked up a lot of her language in the time Iāve spend with her, and I could understand pieces of it and could tell it was very negative about me. I sent her a text saying āI donāt like drama. Even when itās on MySpaceā. She sent me back a text saying she was sorry, and her first soft next began...I ignored all contact from her.
Over the next 24 hours she proceeded to send me about 15 texts and 4 voicemails. By the 3rd voicemail she was sobbing so hard she could barely talk. āPlease Iām so sorry please just talk to me Iāll never do it again I promiseā kind of stuff. I normally let a BD-style soft next go for at least three days, but she was so sweet and innocent and loving, it pulled on my heartstrings. More importantly, at that point we had seen each other for almost a year with zero soft nexts and that means a lot to me, and deserves some special treatment.
So the next day I sent her a text telling her everything was OK and not to worry. When we met up next she gave me a big hug and said āIāll never give you drama again, BD. Never ever. Iām so sorry, I missed you so much.ā
That was months ago. Sheās been perfect since then. 14 months, and only one soft next required. Excellent. As Iāve said, women crave attention more than anything else from you: more than sex, more than money, more than providership. And if you take away your attention very powerful things happen.
She still cleans my house, irons my shirts, pays when we go out to eat whenever I tell her to, often buys me groceries and gifts, buys my kids gifts, buys my dog gifts, and even spent $1500 on Christmas presents for me (I spent about $40 on her). Sheās hinted several times she wants to move in with me, and I actually did let her explore the concept with me, but just a little bit. Iāve been really tempted to make her into an OLTR. Cleans my house, buys me stuff, and lets me fuck other chicks? Hell yeah. Too bad there are several other worthy candidates for OLTRā¦
HBSocialite (24 year old recovering freak) My smoking hot heiress blondie, even though sheās had a BF for these past several months, still texts and calls me, telling me her BF is boring, she canāt get me out of her mind, etc, etc, same old stuff Iāve heard a million times from a million chicks. Over the past year sheās gone through some big changes, and Iāve been impressed. Sheās cut out all drugs out of her life except weedā¦hasnāt touched anything like cocaine in over 8 months. Sheās drastically cut back on her alcohol consumption and as of now (April 2010) has only been drunk three times in the last six months, which compared to how she was when I met her over a year ago is simply amazing.
What really hit me about how much sheās changed is that weāve meet up sporadically while she had a BF, and while we would make out and I would suck her tits, she would not let me fuck her. She didnāt want ācheat on her BFā(!). Wow. This is a 180 degree change for her. As I said, Iām impressed. HBSocialte was my picture of the near-perfect woman (hot, blonde, big tits, amazing ass, highly intelligent, ivy league educated, cultured, funny, speaks four languages, etc) except for the fact she was too wild with the sex/drugs/alcohol stuff. And sheās calmed down on all three(!).
Of course, this no-sex-with-BD-thing didnāt last long. A few days before my birthday she sends me a text saying āI want you to make love to me on your birthday like you did last year, Darling. We should make it an annual tradition! Iām dumping the BF soonā¦ā
Whatever. All I know is on the night of my birthday, my cock was inside her once again. She took me out to Cheesecake Factory, and as soon as she started complaining about how her tits have gotten bigger (from D to DD), and how she hates shopping for bras ābecause they look like parachutesā, it was all over with. I couldnāt get her home fast enough. Sheās one of these perfect mutant women who, when they gain a little weight, all the fat goes to their tits and ass, and the rest of their body stays more or less the same. Heaven.
A year ago, it was completely unacceptable to her that I was fucking other women, actually raising her voice to me on one occasion for about 20 seconds before I soft nexted her ass for a week. Thankfully that kind of drama is rare in my world. I donāt know how guys put up with it all the time. Honestly. Anyway, now that sheās had a few months to adjust to the poly concept (as well as it being similar to Jackie Kennedyās situation, who is her idol), it has now become sort of a game for her. She checks out my Facebook page and says things like āThat girl named so-and-so is hot. I bet you have a lot of fun with her!ā and āHow many other women have you fucked on this blanket?ā and āGod knows how many other women youāve fucked on this spot on your bedā, etc. But itās now all said in jest and fun. Mr Burns says, āEeeeeeeeexcellent.ā
While we fucked on my birthday, during foreplay she held my face, looked at me with those beautiful eyes, and said āGuess what? Iāve made plans.ā I said āhuh?ā. She said, āIām going to be the girl who bags Blackdragonā Uh huh. Like Iāve never heard that before. Sad part is, like HBMySpace, HBSocialite, now that sheās called down her wild side a bit, actually has a shot at doing it. I just said something like āOh really?ā She said āYes. But itās going to be hard to pull you away from all of your 18 and 19 year-olds!ā
No, Darling, not hard. Impossible.
HBSpunky (27 year old very traditional GG) (Iāve put her under the MLTR category but sheās recently become an FB) Like HBMySpace, HBSpunky was a long stretch of consistent, drama-free soft next-free goodness. 8 months straight before encountering our first soft next. She gave me the āwhere is the goingā stuff about 3 months into the relationship, right on schedule just like all other women. I just said something about how Iām not getting serious with anyone this fast and then started sucking on her tits. She said something like āWell, you have kids, so I understandā and that was that.
She has no kids because she has endometriosis, and to treat it she later got a Marina IUD, which is FANTASTIC. Itās the only form of female birth control I trust, so Iāve spent the last year cumming deep inside her tight spunky pussy. David Lee Roth says, āThis. Must. Be. Just. Like. Living in PARA-DISE!ā
The actual verbalization point, where I tell women Iām not going to be monogamous with them and never will be, was about three months after that. She cried a little bit, and then said she had to think about it. And she was back on my cock within four days.
A month after that, she gave me this big talk about how sheās thought about it, and sheād decided that she wants to be with me long term, even if I fuck other women. But then out came call of the fucking feminine āground rulesā. You must use a condom. You cannot ever reschedule me if youāre seeing some other chick. I must be the number one girl. Etc, etc. This all goes to show that women who have NEVER been poly, never wanted to be poly, never even thought about being poly, WILL BE POLY if you just do the right things.
I didnāt āanswerā her rules. Just nodded and acknowledged them. I quietly smiled to myself, since most of them were actually quite appropriate for an OLTR.
Finally, at about the 8 month mark, she told me she wanted to be my girlfriend, and didnāt know why I was ādelayingā that. āIām letting you fuck other women. Youāre living every manās dream here. Iām cooperating with you. I donāt know why I canāt be your girlfriend then.ā
A good point, but I operate on my timetable, no one elseās. I didnāt give her an answer, not a yes, but not a no either. A week later she sent me an email saying she couldnāt be with a man who didnāt want to be with her in a serious way. I told her sheās a wonderful woman (because she is) and that I wanted her to be happy (because I do) and that I respect her decision (because I do) and I let her go.
If youāve read my other MLTR posts, you can probably guess exactly what happened next. Yes, within a few days she sent me texts saying she missed me, saying how she didnāt realize how hard this would be not being with me. And yes, exactly a month later, I was cumming inside her once again. Iām frankly surprised she lasted a whole month. Sheās now not as consistent as before, but thatās fine. Iāve got plenty of other women in the harem.
Treat women right, maintain your alpha poly frame, and they always, always, always come back.
HBGamer (19 year old GG) My newest addition, named for her desire to actually play computer games (how many women do you know who actually like playing computer games? Weird.) We met on POF over a year ago, IMed once, where she told me she was moving across the country with her new boring beta BF. A few weeks ago, while checking my POF email, I saw her pic on the ārecently onlineā area of the screen, remembered her, and her a quick āremember me?ā email. Nailed down the first date on the very next response, had a first date that lasted 2 hours, fucked her on the second date, a 4.5 hour meet-to-lay. While driving her to my house to fuck, after I had fingered her in my car, she actually turned to me and said āI have a feeling youāre used to getting what you want, arenāt you?ā
Why, yes Sweetie. I am.
She has a very, very cute and young looking face, which makes her look much younger than 19. Kinda hot and kinda disturbing, depending on your point of view. At least sheās tall (5ā8ā) so that offsets it a little. But yes, she is 19, Iāve confirmed it several different ways. Long brown hair, smaller boobs, which is a problem, but the rest of her is fantastic, including her ass. Oh god, that ass. And her pussy has this fantastic angle to it Iāve never experienced before, where I can really get in deep. A little hard to explain, but itās delightful.
She likes older men, but has never been with a man as old as me (38), the oldest prior to me was 28, and for her, that was a huge stretch. Now that weāre fucking, sheās going through what a lot of the younger women go through when they start seeing me, the āhow do I tell my parents this?ā type stuff. Ah, sheāll figure it out. They always do.
Even though she had lived with her BF she hadnāt had sex with him for almost a year, had sex with a another guy seven months prior to me, so her little teenage pussy was very, very sore after having sex with me the first time. After sex she said āI feel like Iāve just been raped with a cucumber.ā In all honesty, Iām not small, but Iām not nearly as big as a cucumber. But sheās a tight little girl and it had been a while.
They say, āItās always the shy ones.ā This is HBGamerās defining statement. Very cute, very proper, very āappropriateā, very quiet little voice, but once she we started fucking and she got comfortable, she was begging me for the rough shit. She likes to be choked, even sometimes likes to be hit during sex. She likes one of my fingers in her ass and the other in her pussy and a third on her clit (yeah, itās tricky but doable). She loves to be spanked and called a little teenager slut while I pull her hair. God damn sheās fun. And when the sex is over, sheās right back to good little GG mode.
I now see her consistently, every single week, making just as consistent and HBMySpace. Iām curious to see how long she can go before I have to deal out her first soft next.
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