Subject: Beerbong's Basic Relationship Rules and Beliefs
Author: beerbonghangover

I've had ups and downs with women through the years but have noticed I've dealt with way less drama and whipping than most guys. There's a reason for this. These are my BASIC relationship RULES AND BELIEFS. Most AFC's do not follow these and get all kinds of drama from their women.

NO WOMAN IS MORE VALUABLE THAN ME

Call it ego or selfishness or call it whatever you want. This is a frame or mindset and in my world it's 100% true. But I also have my shit more together than 95% percent of attractive women out there. This makes me the prize objectively as well.

RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BE JUDGED ON SIMPLY COST/BENEFIT TERMS

If a relationship brings more drama into my life than value, then that relationship is effectively worthless. In order to do this calculation you have to be emotionally independent. The moment you are not you will rationalize away any problems and your neediness will convince you to keep her around. However, if you are emotionally independent this is a VERY easy thing to think about. She's either a net gain or a net drag on you. If she's a net drag NEXT HER.

Many guys have the problem where the relationship is actually a NET DRAG but their woman is providing their only means of sex. This is exactly why ASF is not just beneficial to pick up but also relationships. By directly attacking scarcity you SWIFTLY fix this perceived imbalance of power that women have. When you have other options you can clearly see what is/isn't worth it when dealing with women.

ALWAYS HAVE THE GREATER WILLINGNESS TO WALK AWAY

The woman should always want the relationship more. If you ever want the relationship more you are IN THE WRONG and are fucking up the relationship. You need to fix this by upping the challenge level, the tension, paying more attention to other women, or even nexting her. That's right. I NEXT CHICKS if I want the relationship more than she does because I know the quality of that relationship will soon go downhill.

POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT

If a woman does something you like you reward her. Many guys only reward for sexual things. Bad idea. Reward her for the behaviors you want in addition to sex. For example, have her cook you dinner and reward her for that. Do NOT fall into the trap of giving her MORE attention when she is not compliant or giving you drama. For example, giving her great sex when she argues with you is something many guys do. Great way to shut her up. But reinforces her bad behavior.

RELATIONSHIP EXPECTATIONS ARE SET IN THE BEGINNING

All relationship expectations are set from the beginning. This is why you CANNOT chase women in the beginning. If you do you will have to continuously chase her throughout the relationship. If you find yourself in this situation you MUST start withdrawing attention and get her to chase you. If she doesn't -- guess what???? NEXT HER as she will only be a drain on you.

The above paragraph is SO important. Most guys DO NOT SCREEN for anything besides looks and then find a way to DEAL with any imbalance of power in the relationship. This is completely wrong. Screen out chicks who you do not get compliance from. The reason doesn't matter. They might be broken, they might not like you enough -- whatever. GET RID OF THEIR ASSES and up your game so you can replace them.

GREAT SEX

This is a foundation of a great relationship. There's a problem if you are wondering if you give her great sex. PUT IN THE WORK to ensure that you are. In addition give her the "affection" she needs as well. If you get these two things right women will stick to you like glue because they will come to be addicted to sex with you.

THERE'S MORE

But those are the biggies that I see guys fail on again and again. Then they wonder why the woman withholds sex, is non-compliant and hurts their self-worth. It's because you didn't screen correctly and/or you were to scared to lose her to enforce your expectations on how she treats you. You want exactly the opposite of that where the woman is SCARED TO LOSE this valuable man they are lucky enough to have in their life.

"Pencil in the ones you want"

beerbonghangover

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