Subject: RE: Semi non-newb kino questions (not “wtf is kino”)
Author: Sublimer

Note: "kino" just means "touch".

When I introduce myself or open a set, my right hand goes to the nearest hb's [hot babe's] lower back. I rest it there for 3-5 seconds. Anytime I lean in to hear what she is saying my hand goes back to that spot on her lower back. It is a soft touch, usually just my fingertips and I will move them slightly because it feels better to be rubbed than touched. If I have an hb on the right and another on the left, I'm doing it to both at the same time. My hand will go to that spot 10-15 times during a 10 minute conversation. Anytime I agree with what an hb is saying I touch her with my fingers (3-5 full fingers but no palm) on her upper arm between her elbow and shoulder. I don't rub when I do this, I grab softly. If she is sitting down, I rest my hand on her leg exactly halfway between her knee and hip (no rubbing there either unless your talking about something more sexual - she has to be in the mood for that and then with my fingertips only and usually pretty soft). Keep your hand there for at least 2 seconds. Sometimes longer but you need to calibrate the girl for that. 2 seconds is always acceptable.

Comments that should trigger that bell in your head that says TIME TO KINO:
#1. I agree, I feel the same way, I know what your talking about, exactly, thats good, of course, and other shit like that. (good upper arm kino words)
#2. I don't agree, thats a good idea but..., i did the coolest thing (upper arm kino words)
#3. Have you ever, I just love it when, what did you say. (lower back kino)
Hell, say "what did you say" every now and then just to have an excuse to go for the lower back kino again even if you heard what she said. Women fucking love it when you touch their lower back.
#4. If they are sitting with their back to the wall, substitute any lower back kino for her leg.

Don't be afraid to touch the sides of her hips either. If your going to do that, do it with your whole hand and don't make it seem like your trying to get close to her ass. Stay on the side!!!!

Watch women talk to each other without guys in the group, they kino the shit out of each other.
Almost all women do this. When you know what to watch for you will suddenly find it everywhere.
They touch each other's arms, hands and shoulders. It signals they are in a deeper conversation.

You don't have to kino if you don't want. A woman will connect with you much faster if you do though.

The lower back and leg kino is man to woman kino so your going to get more of a sexual attraction that way, it's more dominant. Touching on the arms, hands and shoulders are more woman to woman kino so it will build rapport/trust faster. By all means it's okay for a man to do that though.
Throw in a good mix and you will find just as said above, it increases your game by 10.

Sorry if I went overboard on the specifics, you said your a virgin and uncomfortable with this so I broke it down pretty damn clearly. You shouldn't have any questions.

Follow this rule: Every 30 seconds touch her for 2 seconds. Every point you make in your conversation you should touch her, when she is excited then touch her. When you are excited about something then touch her. When you introduce yourself then touch her. When you say goodbye then touch her. When she introduces you to her friends then touch all her friends. Shake their hands with your right and and your left hand should touch their elbow, upper arm or outside of their shoulder on their back as your shaking hands. This is only a sexual thing if you make it a sexual thing. Otherwise people just trust you more.

I kino guys... I'm not gay, it's about emphasizing my points. When you associate a touch with a high point or key point it just adds emphasis to the mood or point you are projecting on somebody.
I didn't notice it until the other day I caught myself doing it. I am a bit on the alpha side anyway but to this day no person has ever questioned the kino that goes along with any conversation I have ever had.

Women who were in the process of blowing me out during a PU have not even commented on my kino. It is just a natural way to interact with people.

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