Subject: Signs of a Psycho Freak
Author: Corley

My last LTR was a psycho freak (tried to get me fired from my job when I broke up with her, then hospitalized for suicide "attempt"), and if I can help even one person with one small nugget of knowledge in the ongoing conversation here on screening, by relating what I see now, I may feel some sense of satisfaction.

Many of these signs echo what Franco said in his response to my age difference and screening question, and in other previous screening posts and LTR messes, which just goes to show how accurate his and some of the other screening theories here are.

Textbook signs:

-Sexually "abused," not raped, according to her, TWICE

-Horrible relationship with her parents and family. Cops called out to her house as a kid often due to parental fights. Mom called her a bitch and a slut all the time. Doesn't talk to one of her brothers. Loves her dad but constantly clamors for his attention since he is emotionally distant and sometimes abusive. When I tried to "save" her once and get her to reconcile with her family, she calls me up an hour later telling me how she called them, told them to all fuck off, and blamed them for everything bad in her life (Victim theory?)

-Lost her virginity to a guy who then cheated on her with one of her friends

-Was hospitalized previously for depression, suicide attempts

A few possibly textbook, possibly not, signs:

-Mysterious medical illnesses whenever we got into a fight (UTI's, Yeast infection, etc..)

-Attempts to make me jealous OFTEN (I never thought a term like rich descriptions could make so much sense, but it does)

-Exhibitionism

-Would escalate the relationship DURING or after fights (said "I love you" the first time while crying and railing at me on the phone)

-Would ask "WHY do I like her so much?" This would probably go in textbook. Deservedness issues I was obviously conveying TOO much interest

-No eye contact during sex, the one time she attempted she started crying

-Had quit drinking a few months before I met her but never told me why

-Gave me keys to her apartment early in the relationship. Expected I would reciprocate but thank god I did not. May have saved my life or at least my intact penis.

-Sweetest girl ever at times, other times (fights) it was like Dr Jekyll and Mrs. Hyde. Like not even to normal levels, I mean dangerously oscillating moods.

-I would wake up and she was standing over me crying with a knife.

Ok just kidding with the last one but that was probably the next logical progression if I didnt get out when I did.

I have had a few ONS since, but realize I need to really work on some form of FBand MLTR game and work on screening, because I was, quite obviously, completely unprepared and unqualified to screen for or manage an LTR based on reviewing the glaring signs above that I overlooked in my lust for regular access to pussy, of a girl that had some great qualities too, which I leave out in this post.

And PS- in reviewing the info, I think I should point out that I do feel bad for her because of her past, and do not think she's a horrible person. How much of this is my lingering pyschosis from the feelings of love I dont know, but I also recognize she is not good for an LTR, and I can not be her therapist.

All ideas, suggestions, and thoughts are more than welcome.

-Corley

Author: Pussydriven

Thanks Corley. Good post.

Corley wrote:

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A few possibly textbook,
possibly not, signs:

-Mysterious medical illnesses
whenever we got into a fight
(UTI's, Yeast infection,
etc..)

I would definitely move this up to textbook. It's been a mASF favorite to me to point out that strange illnesses that make sex suddenly impossible and always in connection with a fight is BULLSHIT and a ironclad sign of freakiness.

Author: charlie_b

Franco's really useful list from the other post was :

• Chaotic borderline behavior ( she is unable to have a rythm in her life )
  
• Unable to receive good things. Feels "uneasy" when treated well.
  
• Unable to be good to others, treats all the other people with selfishness and rudely.
  
• Has the "Daddy" complex and wants to be treated like a little spoiled Princessa ( all the women are like that but I would say if you see this trait being too big and it breaks your balls then she is not worth your time )
  
• Is in conflict with authorities, especially if she has or has had a constant conflict with her mother this is a bad, bad sign indicating freakiness.
  
• Self-harming behavior: cutting herself, drugs, alcohol in excessive amount, not being able to manage money and so on.
  
• Excessive use of the attitude "I behave just like I feel right now about X,Y,Z" in fact this is a narcissistic trait. Dangerous for you on the longer term. All the women do this but narcissistic women at a much larger extent than the others.
  

My secondary scored 5/7 on Franco's list... which I guess makes her highly qualified as a freak. I would love there to be 10 questions that would answer the question "Is she a freak?" Really would something for all new guys to read here, especially those who start posts with "My gf is a Good Girl, but... "

Author: DogSoldier

charlie_b wrote:

I would love there to
be 10 questions that would
answer the question "Is she a
freak?" Really would something
for all new guys to read here,
especially those who start
posts with "My gf is a Good Girl,
but... "

DAFS my post on Freaks, Ho's and Good Girls in Masterminds.

That was the exact reason for my compilation of pre-sex tell-tale signs.. better to screen them out early in the process than to suffer the heartache years later, maybe even with kids and material possessions at risk.

Dog.

Author: destinNYC

Wow Corley, I think you and I have the same ex girlfriend! Amazing how formulaic freak bullshit is. My psycho freak ex matched your list nearly point-for-point. I'm sure nearly everyone's does.

Author: charlie_b

DogSoldier wrote:

DAFS my post on Freaks, Ho's
and Good Girls in Masterminds.

That was the exact reason for
my compilation of pre-sex
tell-tale signs.. better to
screen them out early in the
process than to suffer the
heartache years later, maybe
even with kids and material
possessions at risk.

Dog.

Just didAFS... Is it this list Dog?

1. Hats. Freaks love wearing them in-doors and they look so sexy doing it. (Credit: Lifeguard)

2. Tattoos. The more the freakier.

3. Smoker. * cough-cough *

4. Overtly sexy clothes. Freaks seem to have a knack for finding outfits that are both a few sizes too small and leave as little to your imagination as possible. (BTW, is every woman in Brazil a freak or what?)

5. Stilettos. Ouch. A personal must for me if I'm taking a girl home, but no self-respecting freak would be caught dead going out in a boring pair of flat shoes.

6. Go-go dancing. Freaks will ALWAYS take up the spot in the club where the largest number of salivating chodes can see them dance.

7. Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde syndrome. A freak will often switch between grinding on a random guy only to ferociously bitch-slap him 2 minutes later for grabbing her ass.

Author: Five_Stenson

-No eye contact during sex,
the one time she attempted she
started crying

Recently was seeing a chick that exhibited lots of classic freak tendencies, along with a strange mix of Good Girl items too. She was unique, in a fucked up way of course.

Anyways, out of all the chicks I've ever slept with, even virgins way back in the day, this chick recently was the first chick ever that after we slept together for the first time, she started CRYING.

Have NO idea what the hell that's about, but I should have seen it as a bad sign of fucked up things to come.

Author: DogSoldier

Five_Stenson wrote:

Recently was seeing a chick
that exhibited lots of classic
freak tendencies, along with a
strange mix of Good Girl items too.
She was unique, in a fucked up
way of course.

Actually, no.

All the freaks I've known make a half-assed effort to "appear" Good Girl but they can't keep it up for very long and they always show signs of being very annoyed with the tasks Good Girls typically love to do, like cooking, cleaning and generally helping other people out.

Dog.

Author: destinNYC

Another psycho freak habit I've noticed: adopting pets they can't handle.

Author: Corley

You're killing me here! This girl (who still sent me texts for a short while for god knows what reason), sent one shortly after she got back from the hospital, actually a pic text: "I just got a new kitty, isn't she cute." Ha. WTF!?!?

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