What do you do when your partner loses interest? What do you do when in spite of the communication, in spite of the rest of the positives in the relationship, your partner just isn't interested in sex anymore...for whatever the reason? After lots of self-evaluation on your own appearance, on your personality, on stupid-but-important things like 'is my breath awful?', or 'am I just not trying hard enough or expressing my needs properly?' and you come up empty with things that it could be 'you' or something you're doing or not doing....what do you do if sex is still important to you? Still something you crave, need and desire? How do you find a work-around when it's not you, but it directly effects you? Older gentleman here...still virile, and still interested. Any over-40 Seattle area women in a happy relationship but on the receiving end of 'lost interest' in sex as well? I'd love getting thoughts or opinions or stories/experiences if you've been in a similar situation. Gainfully employed. Educated. Still relatively good looking and haven't completely let myself go yet. At this point just looking to get the female perspective and feed back. For now.