I know the right connection when it starts, and while looks, intelligence, etc. are all important, connection is what I think we're all after when we're in a 'current situation'.

Being emotionally supportive and affectionate, filling in what's lacking in our current situations, and excited to stay in touch throughout the day - this is the judgement free world I'd love to build together with you.

Hopefully you're in Seattle or North of Seattle (as long as we're open to a bit of travel) - proximity will open the door for something ongoing for us.

We're not looking to change each other's situation but simply to add to our own lives - both in the bedroom (physically) and headroom (emotionally).

Connection itself is paramount. That's actually the only thing that matters, as most of us know.

• I love art, tech, and reading (from self growth to autobiographies). One of my favorite things to do with another person is to sit at a new cafe together and have simple chats about our interests - whether it be your current book, personal life, controversial opinions and topics - I simply love getting to know different perspectives

• I want to know you, things that you laugh about and I want you to know me equally

• I have a son, who is in elementary school - love him dearly and enjoy reliving a lot of my nerdy childhood things with him

Quick about me: I'm Asian, 5'5", 38 years of age, tech business founder, actively fit, healthy, and I've been told I've got a warm smile and handsome.

To sum up, I met my last AP here on this sub. She contacted me, a most wonderful connection followed, and we had the most amazing four months together. Unfortunately it was short lived due to uncontrollables. I have absolutely no regrets. I think the world of her.

But I'm not looking for another "her."

I'm looking for you.