I have a great life. I love my family and friends, have a great career, and I've had many enjoyable experiences overseas and in the Seattle area. My friends would likely describe me as happy, optimistic, humorous, and fun-loving in nature. And yes, I'm a 45-year-old virgin.

I know what you're thinking--how? why?

Well, I'm a plus-sized (size 24) Latina which automatically narrows my dating pool. I also didn't realize until later in life that I was demi, so I didn't realize that I needed to form a emotional connection with someone before I wanted to pursue a romantic relationships with them. By the time I figured that out, I was in my 30s and the thought of telling my date I was a virgin who had barely been kissed made me a feel awkward, vulnerable, and fragile. So I just...didn't date.

But now that I've reached middle-aged, I don't want to live the rest of my life without having experienced sexual intimacy or a romantic relationship. So I'm hoping someone here is open to being my teacher.

About me:

• 45 year old Latina female. I think I'm attractive, but you'll have to be the judge of that.

• 5'4, plus-sized, BBW, curvy (275 lbs)

• STD-free (obvs!), clean, hygienic, and well-groomed

• Sex positive and highly sexual (I use vibrators to organism 7-10 times a week, on average)

• Curious, fun-loving, good listener, and open to taking direction

About you:

• 30 to 50 year old male

• Attracted to plus-sized women

• STD-free, clean, hygienic, and well-groomed as well.

• Kind, open, a good teacher/communicator

• Sex-positive and adventurous

• Lives in the Seattle area

Lessons I'm Interested In:

• Kissing

• Blow jobs

• Foreplay

• Sex (a variety of positions)

• Anal

• Kink exploration (I'm not into humiliation, pain, blood sports or golden showers, but anything else goes! Maybe some taboo roleplay, light BSDM, or some another kink that you've always enjoyed or wanted to explore?)

• Bonus points if you're good at dirty talk or praise kink!

I just need help taking off the training wheels. If you're interested in sharing your knowledge and teaching me, please reach out. Thanks for reading. :)