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Tips for meeting safely
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Meeting someone in person whom you've only met online can be exciting, but it's essential to prioritize safety. Here are some tips to help ensure a safe meeting:

  1. **Meet in a Public Place**: Choose a busy, public location for your first meeting, such as a coffee shop, restaurant, or park. Avoid secluded areas or private spaces.

  2. **Tell Someone**: Inform a friend or family member about your plans, including where you'll be meeting, the person's name, and any other relevant details. Arrange to check in with them before and after the meeting.

  3. **Trust Your Instincts**: If something feels off or uncomfortable during the conversation or when you meet in person, trust your instincts and consider ending the interaction.

  4. **Verify Their Identity**: Before meeting in person, video chat or talk on the phone to verify the person's identity and get a sense of who they are.

  5. **Keep Personal Information Private**: Avoid sharing sensitive personal information, such as your home address, phone number, or financial details, until you feel comfortable and trust the person.

  6. **Drive Yourself**: If possible, drive yourself to and from the meeting location. This gives you control over when you arrive and leave.

  7. **Stay Sober**: Avoid consuming alcohol or drugs during the meeting, as it can impair your judgment and decision-making abilities.

  8. **Set Boundaries**: Clearly communicate your boundaries and expectations before meeting in person. Respect each other's boundaries throughout the interaction.

  9. **Have an Exit Plan**: Plan an exit strategy in case the meeting doesn't go as expected. Arrange for a friend to call or text you at a specific time as a pretext to leave if needed.

  10. **Follow COVID-19 Guidelines**: If meeting during the COVID-19 pandemic, follow recommended safety guidelines, such as wearing masks, practicing social distancing, and meeting in outdoor spaces when possible.

By prioritizing safety and taking precautions, you can enjoy meeting someone from the online world while minimizing potential risks.

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