I live life in the gray area she see everything black and white.

Take for example we both got invited to go bar hopping for a friends (female, gf of my friend who I introduced to my girlfriend)birthday. She says she isnt super interested and will celebrate in her own way, I say ok I am going to the birthday party even though I am not interested in bar hopping I am going to celebrate my friend. She took that as I said that female friend and I were besties and I want to go bar hopping with all the girls... we spoke later and she understood that I was going to celebrate a friends birthday and I wasn't saying all that.

Another example my assistant scheduled work for me on a time that I have blocked off to rest and my girl got heated saying how dare she and how rude of her etc etc and I had to explain that I had greenlighted it to get a job and if there was something important scheduled I would reschedule the appointment.

Bonus she got jealous because my assistant and I talk alot on the phone, just work 🙃 but yeah she got

Its soooo tough