My gf (trans mtf) of a little over a year, mostly online relationship, both of us are minors, randomly keeps bringing up having children and seems very adamant that either I give birth or we don’t have children which I don’t understand because there’s the option of adoption or a surrogate and it’s just so frustrating because I do not think I will be giving birth due to my PMDD I don’t want to risk either nine months of misery or nine months of happiness and then having a horrible crash and risking the babies mental and physical Safety, plus my past with my mom having been irritable when I was very young I don’t want to be the reason a child has to live with a trauma, at least with adoption it’s someone else’s fault… I’ve also told her that if she really wants a good sexual life and if I’m not satisfactory for her life style I’d understand if she moves on I just wish she’d quit acting like she understands the struggle i have..