Hey there,

I'm living in Wrocław (Poland), average looking guy, 177cm height and 75 kg weight, highly introvertive, and since a long time I have been looking for a romantic partner with which I could spend quality time discussing topics, sharing interests (like movies, books, games), passions and just being there for each other to share emotions, problems, hopes and of course, the good times and a good laugh. I realise that I'm looking for pretty specific people, which I have found very few of at all, so I will try to describe myself, my situation, what is important to me, and what I'm looking for, in great detail.

Beware the wall of text.

First of all, I'm Polish, but I'm writing this post in English because I use this language for majority of my activities (and my work) anyway, I can't imagine functioning without it anymore. Furthermore, while it would be awesome to find someone relatively close to be able to meet up without a hassle, I'm open to LDR for the right person. To further clarify on why I'm fine with this type of relationship, I will describe what my situation is like.

My entire life I have been a homebody, and a huge nerd to boot, I never particularly liked most outdoor activities, and especially dislike most sports, I just don't find any pleasure from majority of types of physical exertion like going to the gym, or walking for hours through the mountains, though I do some basic aerobic each day to keep in general shape. Also it's not like I don't go outside, I don't mind going out every now and then for some walks, hitting some restaurants, coffee shops, theatres, arcades, cinemas etc., but it's definetly much less than the standard for a lot of people I know. Also, I don't drink alcohol, and almost never party in the standard sense, though I love a chill evening playing board games every now and then for example (Riichi Mahjong enthusiast btw).

What I wanted to get to though, is that I spend a loooot of my time in my home/room, either working (home office, Data Science), reading, watching (movies, youtube, anime), gaming, pondering, doing projects, and I'm happy with that. In fact, I'm a huge gamer and a minmaxer to boot, I play pretty much all my games on hardest difficulty because I just love the challenge and racking my brain for a solution. No matter if it's an RPG like Chained Echoes, Persona, a strategy game like Divinity 2 or King's Bounty, a puzzle game like Portal 2 (Reloaded) or Factorio with some crazy mods, raiding in WoW or XIV, or even an action game like Furi and Sekiro, I just love being challenged, experimenting, honing my skills, and coming up with solutions. In fact, through most of my life I have been engaged in a lot of esports circles, first I tried going pro for years in LoL, and even was part of a Diamond / Master team and played some tourneys, later in my life I mostly switched to card games and actually went pro for some time in Gwent. Being able to play and experiment with some of the brightest players out there has been an absolute blast and is a time I still recall very fondly. Being able to share this kind of joy for a challenge / gaming / pondering with a partner would be absolutely awesome, though I would be happy to just be respected for it. For example, a date like playing a 1v1 board game with coffee / drinks sounds absolutely awesome to me.

I'm a person of relatively high integrity and morality, I'm living comfortably in my own home (somewhat rich) with a few of my closer friends (I invited them so that living would be nicer / easier for everyone). Since I have been 18, I have always been aiming to be doing something extraordinary / good / enjoyable for others in my life, regardless of work. When I have been pursuing esports, I was releasing online content and streaming rather regularly. Nowadays, I'm working alone on mods for a game called 'Potionomics' and I'm pouring my heart to make the highest quality content possible. Soon I will be taking over a small family company with my older sister, and I hope to modernize it extensively and ultimately secure a livelihood for the rest of my life, so I can focus on passion projects and doing some other nice / cool things for the world. 'Winning' life and just spending rest of my days on a farm or some manor with nothing going on is very much not for me, and it would be awesome to have similar people who are intellectually curious, have passions, and want to do something out there.

On another important topic I'm a christian of strong faith, but please don't mistake me for the classic devout Polish catholic, I'm very open-minded and don't condemn being gay or abortion, in fact my best friend is gay and we spend a lot of time talking, watching and gaming together, mostly online. I read Bible daily and praying / talking to God is important to me and a strong stabilizer in my life, but I don't force my believes on anyone and don't go around saying that if you aren't a christian you are wrong / a bad person. It would just be nice to either be able to share my believes with a partner, or be open enough to be able to discuss our believes freely and seriously without ridiculing each other.

A fair warning that despite the fact that I'm placing a lot of importance on 'the beauty of the mind and soul', as some would probably call it, I have a relatively high sex drive and would probably ultimately struggle in an asexual or close to it relationship. I'm actually seriously considering toning it down via medicine if it proves necessary. Regardless, I hope to be able to one day start a family, though probably no sooner than in a few years, if at all (who knows what will be happening then), so if you are strongly against ever having children, it might be a sore point.

Right, so congratulations if you got to this point, because like almost nobody gives a shit about a random autobiography like this, but in case you are you seriously still here, you might be wondering what can I offer in a relationship like this, other than all of those aspects of my life. First of all, in case it has not become apparent yet, I'm only interested in relationships where both parties are treating each other as equals, no sugar daddy, no treating the other person as worse / superior / pet / flower / whatever. For a real long term partner, I wouldn't be opposed to supporting them financially, assuming there is an actual reason for that other than the other person doing absolutely nothing (for example you could be an aspiring writer or singer or streamer without 100% guaranteed income, or struggling for some other genuine reason). I have been in a serious relationship in the past, and I can promise to treat you fairly, seriously, support you both emotionally and intellectually, I hope we could do that for each other actually. I mentioned at the start that for a right person I'm open to LDR, and I really believe that it could work if we genuinely both enjoyed spending time discussing, gaming, watching, and pondering, though just comfortably sitting in the same voice chat or room while each is doing their own thing is something also worth striving for.

Hit me up a DM, generally I'm online on Discord 24/7, so we could talk there later :)