Hi! I don't have PDA, but I have personality traits that are similar in representation, in particular the dislike for authority, so I decided to share advice which my ex colleague told me and it opened my eyes: "your boss is your client". Somehow, it doesn't feel nearly as ego threatening when you realize that you don't have to blindly obey your boss because they are authority, but you just have to do your work as if you would do a service-type job for a client. Of course, it implies you need to please the person who is on charge of payment and sometimes it involves sucking up, but for me it was a game changer as I feel more in control of what I'm doing