The last week has been exhausting because my 7 year old PDA son is constantly shifting from agressive/combative/activated state to calm and sweet. I am so tired of being in defense mode and I just want to enjoy my sweet kid. We are very low demand. The only demand he had today was to run to town to get our grocery order. Where he gets to watch shows or play games on his iPad. But the whole day has been him trying to climb out of the livingroom window because I let him last week but it's muddy outside and I don't want him to ruin our screen or window. So he will go right for the window to start the fight. I feel like I can't relax because I'm always on guard. Anyone have tips to help? We've gone outside spent time with our animals, played games he wants to play. But it's like something flips in his brain and he wants to attack me. He said he loves fighting because it's his passion. So I tried wrestling with him, which was ok for a little bit. We have a punching bag and I got that but he tries to jump on the bag and hit me. Help!