Hi all,
Looking for somewhat of a dream situation here so hopefully reddit can deliver. We are a couple that has been together for many years and recently went to open. We are looking to explore, but she is against trying to find someone online since she thinks online people are weird. We've been to bars before and she wants something to happen organically, but we aren't sure how to get started with finding someone. I'm hoping to try and set up a situation where we are approached by a more experienced couple and we can create the organic meeting she wants. Would be cool to learn where you guys meet people locally, but I imagine some people don't want to give up their best fishing spots.
A bit about us. We are both 31, she's 5'2" 120lbs(or less) and I'm 5'6" 155lbs, both hispanic. She fits the book worm girl next door look and I cannot imagine anyone would be disappointed. I'm an average build, get told normally I'm handsome and cute, but I'd say I'm fighting the change to dad-bod and losing. We are open minded to trying new things and we are still finding new things to do years later. I'm sure with some guidance, you guys would open up a whole new world.
Hoping to find someone around our age, experienced, but doesn't come off too strong. She values a connection above all else, so good conversation is a must. We both like dominant people, and that would be a huge plus. Say carrot so I know you're real.
Happy to answer any questions, I've lurked a little bit, but I've never had the courage to post so I'm sure I'm missing a few things.
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