Located in Lancaster, PA

I'm 5'10, African American, 175lbs, in shape, Drug, and disease-free, and looking for friends with benefits without forgetting the friendship aspect. This lifestyle has always fascinated me due to the connection you can form with the right people. There's something about meeting people and then building comfort and trust, which creates a much more enjoyable experience. I've technically been in the lifestyle for a few years, but my experience is equivalent to a newbie since I have yet to do much.

Preferably, I'm looking for a couple to meet with for something ongoing, but I'm also open to single women. I love genuine connection and prefer to converse with you both before jumping into anything immediately. I believe connection is one of the most essential parts of this lifestyle, and that's what I aim for. I have some experience in the lifestyle, but I want to learn more with the right people.

I'm respectful, down to earth, and, overall, someone who genuinely likes to be fun. I enjoy reading, writing, hiking, and exercising.

I enjoy regular conversations and even doing vanilla stuff from time to time. I know my place in this lifestyle and respect what the couples want. It is an honor if a couple chooses you to be a part of their life, and the utmost respect must be given when invited into their bedrooms.

I'm not looking to jump from couple to couple. I want to find a couple that's local to me for something ongoing.

I only play with condoms, and I'm not into any male-on-male play of any kind.

If I sound like someone you might be interested in, I would love to hear from you. The opportunity of being your potential third would be an honor and something I would treasure greatly.