I don’t really know how to start these. I used to be on here under different usernames and have met some truly lovely (and truly awful) redditors over the years—some in Philly, many elsewhere.

I’m careening into summer and starting to look around for the first time in a long time for new play partners—casual, perhaps anonymous, but am really open to many versions of this. I just want some folks to get sweaty and weird with all summer while I dial back my work commitments.

I am: a person who does climate justice work for a living, a dog owner, and general lover of animals and the outdoors (hiking Laghuveer in Iceland this summer, for example). I’ve been in and out of the kink and ENK/poly scene for going on 15 years and have settled into a dom-leaning switch dynamic that I love. Lots more I could say about specific kinks there, but one of my favorite scenes with a new person involves them sitting on my face, edging and slapping my cock, and once they’ve cum to their little heart’s content, flipping the roles and fucking their face until they’re covered in spit and cum. Also sometimes gentle vanilla sex is very nice. Oh, I’m also very fit (former college athlete and avid climber now), tall, and have long curly hair.

You are: someone aged 20-60, adventurous in and out of the bedroom, and willing to explore a summer dalliance. Ideally you’re in or willing to come to South Philly, but it’s not a deal breaker.

A list of non-ranked things I’d also love to see from ya: regularly tested (I’m on a 12 week cycle) and otherwise responsible with your sexual encounters (reader: you use condoms); open to some future group scenarios (my other partners and I want to add folks to the mix); you can either come to me or host (or have great semi-public places in min); and you otherwise are open to exploring your desires in a semi-structured way this summer, whatever that means for ya.

I’m hoping to wrap this bit of meeting/discussion up by late-May, so slide into my inbox please. Oh, also, here is what I kinda look like (my face is less smudged irl—dropping link in my profile now).