Tags: [EVENT], [DISCUSS], and [SHARE] are not for subverting the connection tags. They're for discussion of the lifestyle in general and disseminating information about the local scene. If your connection post doesn't fit within our [MF4MF], [MF4F], or [MF4M] tags then your post doesn't belong here (looking at you single men). Misusing the tag system will usually result in a ban.

Photos: Please do not post closeups of genitals. No one cares. They all pretty much look the same. If you want to attract others they need to see more of you. I'll remove such posts. Lastly if I suspect the post is a single male posing as a couple I'll remove it and ask you to post a picture of you together. The safe thing to do is just start with that picture up front so people don't think you're catfishing and while I won't typically remove posts with only women, you're not doing yourself any favors by not posting a picture of the male half. Everyone will assume he's not up to par and you'll only get replies from single men.

Reports: If you suspect someone is catfishing or pic collecting then it would be awesome if you took the time to DM me with the proof. We don't want any of that garbage here and I will be happy to issue bans when appropriate.