If you look at my previous posts, you'll see that I have been looking for just hookups or sex for a while. It's becoming clear though, after a couple of meets, that I'm not interested in just a hookup. I know FWB gets thrown around a lot, but that's what I really want, emphasis on the "friend" part. I'm not in a good place for a serious commitment, but I don't want revolving ONS either.

Am I still looking for sex? Yes. However, sex with someone I don't know well or that just gets up and leaves after has honestly been making me feel kind of empty. I haven't hooked up much since starting this Reddit account, but the couple people I have met and lots of people I've chatted with have shown me what I'm NOT looking for. Honestly, I've never been much of a hookup kind of person. So, if you read about me below, and want to hang out, send me a message.

Vanilla Me: I like music, and it's a big part of my life. I work as a musician in CFL. I like movies and TV shows, and I'm happy to stay in and watch something on the couch most nights instead of going out, but if there is something fun to go out for, I'm down for it, just not going out to just go out. I'm 420 friendly with edibles, no smoking. You can smoke, just not inside my place. I'm self-employed (with music and some other side hustles), so my schedule is pretty flexible. I own a townhouse and a car, so I'm at least mostly financially stable. I'm divorced, and I'm past that, but I'm now trying to figure out where I'm gong from here.

For a physical description and some dirtier stuff...

I am 5'9 270 (so kind of a bigger guy, but I'm working on slimming back down), ddf, open to most kinks (nothing extreme), and have a thick 7.5" uncut BWC. I like the idea of playing with free use sometimes, and casual acts of sex (like getting sucked slowly while we watch a movie or I play a video game) are super hot to me. I'm also a boob guy, and I tend to like ladies that are a little on the curvy side. I like to give oral, and I'm very good at it from all accounts. I'll spend as long as you want between your legs if you're into it, and I only expect the same in return. I also have great stamina, and I can go for quite a while.