about me: mid 40s, long curly hair, average build, 5'10. married, bi-curious (one experience)

about you: fit, black, straight-acting - top or verse. married preferred. patient, gentle (when needed), normal, sane, no "thugs". this isn't about BBC (whatever you have is fine), no bulls, no players. I'm not picky on age (but I might be picky on looks), but I suspect 40s is my limit. you live on the north side of town, or are willing to travel here to be convenient for me. (oviedo, sanford, lake mary, UCF areas)

I...have a thing for black dudes. I mean, yeah, I know. 15 years ago I had a 3some where she had to bail early and the two of us kept going. I know I can't repeat my first time, but I'd like to have a 2nd.

my availability isn't perfect (usually monday daytimes), and you're going to need patience - I'm going to be shy, I'm going to be skittish, and I'm going to be picky and ask stupid questions and whatever.

I'm not looking for a boyfriend - or even a friend (not that a friend is out of the question, but I want to be straightforward here: this is about sex first and foremost). I won't bring you home, I won't introduce you to my wife, and I wont even give you my real name. We can meet in a hotel room (or, if I get comfortable, I could come to your place). If _you_ want to to include your wife? well, lets talk.

if you're not married, or partnered? if you meet the other criteria, well, lets talk. but again, I'm not looking for a boyfriend. :)

You have to be willing to share pics - G rated, and eventually share a face and topless picture. If you share a dick or ass picture without me specifically asking, I probably won't respond. (and I wont ask. I might not ask.)

This might be "next monday" or this might take a few weeks to make happen. I don't know. So be patient.

DMs and chat welcome - I _try_ to check regularly, but sometimes I miss a few days. I will respond to _everyone_ who applies, though, even if it's just "no thank you". (unless you send dick/ass pics.)

tl;dr - go back up and read, I'm picky but I want this.