When a post says “Looking for a Couple!” is it really that damn hard to understand?? If I just wanted a man to come fuck my wife, I’d post looking for that… every single man that messages telling me they are free to join will just be blocked.
If you can, send us a screenshot or forward us their lashing out and we'll gladly ban or at least shadow ban them - we can't take just usernames, we need the actual proof. Most of them get new profiles but we have tools for that and Reddit Admins are also helping us out when they can.
Blocking them should also be standard for you if it isn't already.
And yes, like my wife mentioned, we are planning on setting up the private sub, r/Oregon_swingers, here soon. It's my fault that we haven't done it yet as I just haven't had the time but I'll try to prioritize it a little higher.
Thank you. We aren't anti-single men, but we are anti anyone who doesn't respect the post flair or OP's wishes. Basically, we respect those that show respect and those that don't.
And if you see a comment that is disrespectful, report it so we can remove it quickly. Thanks!
I didn't take this as a dig at all. Just an opportunity to say that we are here and helping as much as we can. Trust me, we know and understand this frustration first hand. LOL. I turned chats off long ago because of this. (Oh yeah, u/rob8398, you may want to turn chats off, serious couples will either know how to send a private message or ask on your posted thread. Single guys seem to strongly favor chats here.)
Aw, that is kind of you to say.
We are working on 3 but we want to do it right and we don't want it to turn into a dead sub either if we do. We think it could fill that void for many here so hopefully soon.
It's unfortunate that this happens so often.
The mod team here is trying to help as much as possible in a few ways.
1) If you look at any of the mod's histories here, mine, u/Auto_Perv_Mod, and my husband's, u/Mr_Secret_Name, you'll see that we remove comments all day long. Please, go see our histories. Unfortunately, removing these comments, giving a warning, and a ban of that repeatedly ignore these is about all that we can do on this front.
2) We set our spam filters to try and catch some of these before they even comment. I won't go into detail on how these are see up but they catch a surprising amount.
3) Finally, we are still planning on opening a private sub to verified couples and single women only soon. We have been talking to other mods and trying to get this set up correctly. When we do, we'll make an announcement. It's here! Private sub info
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Thanks for the kind words, it helps balance out all the crazy rants we receive for 'taking out the trash' here. I'm a little biased but I think we have a really good team here.