Hear. Me. Out. If the woman isn't going to participate in conversations like flirting or just talking to us, be upfront about it. It's really kind of crappy when you lead us on here. Some of us are tired of this.
I had a bit of a complex that women just didn't like me for one reason or another in the lifestyle, and it only happens in the lifestyle, like I made them jealous or something was wrong with me. Found out this week after talking with another woman like me, that many of you, despite what your ad says, despite what you tell everyone, despite how energetic you are to meet with us, turns out that most women just don't text and flirt. You're making us look weird and giving us complexes.
I already told my husband that if the woman is not replying and actively participating in our conversations at least a little, I'm done with them. Too many good ones out there to waste our time on half of a couple.
I'm not saying daily, but something more than like on a message or a Thursday, "what are you guys thinking for this weekend?" message. Or the dreaded, "so what are you wearing?" and then silence.
P.A.R.T.I.C.I.P.A.T.E.
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