We are a couple who are excited to explore new things together. We have been to Privata a few times now and sometimes our nerves have gotten the better of us. We have a great time dancing and people watching each time we have been. We have engaged in mild conversation and dancing with other couples, but we are unsure where to start with initial conversations. We understand that most of us are there for the same basic reason, but we feel like we'd like to at least get to know some people a little bit Ahead of time. We Would like to know what kind of things people talk about in the beginning. We have asked questions like what people do for a living and other basic questions along that line, but it felt like people did not want to talk about that. We would also like to know what/ if there are any expectations when we engage with others. Right now we are taking baby steps and are open to watching and being watched privately maybe even some touching. We don't want to disappoint anybody, but that's where we want to start.
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