We joined Kasidie and Fetlife to try and scope out the who's going but they haven't been reliable.
For the past year we can't seem to find the right nights to go on. It's at the point that we're thinking Privata is no longer for us and maybe the hot crowd has gone elsewhere, but where???
To be blunt, Privata has become more trashy than upscale and the cliques are so obnoxious that they are sucking the life out of the place.
We've seen a steady decline in the overall appearance of people who go over the past year and now if an attractive, HWP, well-dressed couple walks in, rarely do they stay long and rarely do we see them ever return. We've talked to some who have left early and they've all told us that they left for similar reasons, being:
They, like us, don't see it as an upscale club. It's mostly trash with some upscale sprinkled in. This isn't a socioeconomic thing, it's just how people present themselves.
There's not a lot of HWP or attractive couples.
When an HWP attractive couple comes in, they are "bombarded by couples not in a similar league" -we share this sentiment. Friendly is fine, but they are going for more than friendly. We believe we are attractive and we are certainly fit, but even then we wouldn't go up to Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds and ask them if they wanted to hook up, we are not in the same leagues, maybe, but it would be on them to come to us. Hard to blame them for shooting their shot but when they line up, one right after the other, and they are annoying about it, it's not fun.
The cliques are obnoxious. This varies a lot from 'they are snobs' to 'do they own Privata or something?' to 'politely turn one down and it's cold shoulders' (we experienced this) to 'I forgot my Baby Gap shirt so they snubbed us!' lol.
We really are not an apps or online couple, mostly because we're both horrible at conveying ourselves through keyboards, but I find it difficult to believe that all the hot couples that were there stopped being swingers or moved.
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Holly and Charles are not selling. Whoever started this stupid rumor needs to mind their own damn business. It’s not gunna happen and they’ve said as much as recently as this past weekend.
Source: am former employee and know the entire staff.