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Out first time experience at Privata and the lifestyle [MF4MF/F]
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We are a couple from Seattle 37/32 started off the night at Privata nervous but excited. Started to have a few cocktails and we immediately started getting attention which was nice. Here are some highlights:
- The first couple that approached us were old and the guy asked me (the male) to play with his wife and make some money if I wanted to. We tuned them down nicely.
- We had a few nice chats with couples without any pressure to play which was nice.
- My wife really wanted to hookup with a girl for the first time and I wanted to ensure that I do not need to join if you connect with one. My wife did find a girl that she liked but she had her man. The girl agreed to play with my wife and the guys can take a hike. That was fine for me but clearly, the guy wanted to be involved and it seemed like it made things a bit awkward. Fastworard....we all ended up in a private room and the girls started to play and the guy seemed to want to play and started touching my wife. I immediately asked him to please ask for consent as they both made it clear, they just wanted to play alone. He apologized but it just made the whole vibe weird.
- The bottom line, we loved being there and we will go back for sure. However, I do want to leave you with this question:
When the wife really wants to play with a female and has no interest in other guys. However, the female has her hubby. What is the protocol here? Is it better to just let the females play alone? Can the boys join and have boundaries by just touching their girls? Is it possible to establish these ground rules and not have it be weird and still be hot?
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