Both clubs have their own pros and cons and both are worth going to, but you'll probably find that one is better for you like we did.

So first things first. We are in our mid thirties, we're both not what they call Height-Weight-Proportionate (HWP). One is fluffy and the other is curvy. We're both a little bi. We think we're attractive. We like classy but we're okay with a little dive here and there.

So the tldr is basically that we thought TVR is better for us because ppl are friendlier, they are all body positive and they are all more open to bisexual men. Privata was okay but to many ppl I felt like were judging us having fun and just trying to be ourselves. And I don't care what you say, there are a lot of clicks at Privata. Like you walk up to couples and they immediately think that you're going to try and fuck em right there and then they run to their friends to point you out. Happened enough that we won't go back because of this alone. At TVR everyone is friendly like you've known them a long time and playing pool or chillin in the hot tub is all cool.

Now that's not to say that Privata was all bad, we had some good times there and we some cool couples but it was rare. In the ten nights we went, we talked and got numbers for nine couples and two we've kept in contact with. At TVR I think we walked out our first night with ten.

TVR has a lot of regulars there and when we go it's like hanging with friends. But every weekend was mostly a different group at Privata. You'd see a lot of the same ppl on a Friday and Saturday but the next weekend was mostly different.

Single guys. So at Privata they we'd go for hours trying to talk to ppl and feeling kinda down on our luck then as the night gets late and they start making like last call or something we'd be surrounded by guys all trying to spit their game or something. The first couple of nights we was feeling it but no one likes to be the last call couple. At TVR we had two bad things happen but they took care of them real quick ON THOSE NIGHTS. One was a guy on the dance floor that started touching and when we alerted staff they escorted him out. BUT here's where we have a problem, same guy was there again three months later!!! We let them know about the last time and they said that he had served his time they'd be watching him. Idk I kinda feel like they chose him over us that night and we've been soured on it ever since. Once a creep, always a creep. The other was a group of guys that came in and just thought it was going to be a big orgy or something and kept asking everyone when they was getting naked and one guy just started jerkin it in a booth - they tossed him and his pals out that night.

Bi men. So don't even try this at Privata. We didn't try it but just bringing it up got us shot down. Like "are you open to men men play" and we were shot down. We talked to some others and they said that they just don't do it there and if we were interested in that, go to TVR, Sanctuary or even Hawks. TVR it wasn't really like on display but when it was it wasn't like a big deal or anything.

I think most of everything else I wanted to say has been said in other reviews here. Glad we found this subreddit! It looks like a great group here. If you have any questions just ask we'll try to answer them.

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