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[MF4MF/F] How do you deal with all the DM's from single guys here and elsewhere online?
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Beauty_and_the_Fatty is a male/female couple looking for a male/female couple or a female in Oregon
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Wife and I have put some ads out here (not this subreddit specifically) and on a few other apps and I swear 9/10 replies are just guys trying to 'slide in to our DM's' even when we are upfront about no single guys. It's not that we are opposed them but right now it's MF/F and we put that in our ads.

What we think should be some sexy time instead turns into spam fest with dick pics, thirst, and "dm me"/"hmu"/"w u at" messages. If it were a few of these, no biggie but it's seriously just spam after spam after spam.

On here we are at least able to block and even report but it's really killing the mood here.

My wife's last post to another sub had her block 52 users in two days. Five couples, 52 guys who either couldn't read or were really just that rude.

Ideas?

Is there a list of users kept around here that we could preemptively block? Lol

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Here's how we usually handle it:

My wife hands me her phone and I go through the messages and read them out loud with my best Strongbad impression. (If you don't know Strongbad, I suggest looking him up on YouTube just so you know how ridiculous it is).

It takes sifting through 50 DMs and makes it funnier than hell. 😂

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